I have mentioned before spiritual warfare that has targeted me since I was a child by specifically influencing people to do terrible things to me to try to push me toward unforgiveness. Included in this warfare has been harassment from several neighbors in my neighborhood (many of whom, I had barely spoken to and didn't even know their names) who began viciously targeting me for no reason. Several of them have moved now but a few still remain. Well, one of them who moved used to live right next door to me. This person still tries to contact my family (I did try to be friendly with them until I began to distance myself from them due to harassing behavior from them and their friends and family toward me - because of this, they have my and my mother's contact information; I distanced myself before knowing the true origin of their behavior) but it only ever seems to be at times when this warfare is trying to flare back up. It is currently trying to flare back up because my menstrual cycle is coming. I have a condition called PMDD which makes my cycles difficult and Satan always tries to take advantage of this condition in my life to attack me (please pray for healing and a cure for this condition for all who have it; pray that we would all either be brought to faith in Christ or into deeper relationship with Him if we are already Christian) and he has started now. It's so ridiculous because I often don't even KNOW what it is that is causing Satan to attack but then he'll just find a reason and start. I'm sorry to use this word but to me, his behavior is so stupid. Well, this person I'm talking about started calling my mother and I last night. She called me six times in the span of two minutes. I don't know how many times she called my mother. I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt that maybe she was having problems with her phone or something but given her harassing behavior under the influence of this warfare before, I cannot push aside the possibility of her purposely calling my phone that much just to try to disturb me. My mother and I didn't answer although my mom said she would call her later. This person and their loved ones displayed a lot of concerning behavior which caused my mother and I to begin to question whether it was wise to remain in close contact with them (but again, I felt this way before understanding the true origin of their behavior; by the time I understood they were under demonic influence, they had moved) so that is why my mother hesitated to answer. Although God has softened my heart toward the people who have harassed me due to this warfare, I feel He has not made it totally clear that He wants me to move forward with reconnecting with any of them, so although I view them differently now and with kindness, I am hesitant to trust them or allow them back into my life. Some of these people I know they can never be back in my life due to my relationships with them conflicting with my faith in Christ. Because of all this, I do not intend to contact this person back in the foreseeable future. I am considering blocking their number just in case because although I view them differently now, I just don't want to be disturbed by any harassment that may flare up. I don't know if this is a good idea or not? Thank you.
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We hear your cry for help in the midst of this relentless spiritual warfare, and our hearts ache with yours as we stand with you in the authority of Jesus Christ. The enemy has indeed been waging a targeted campaign against you since childhood, seeking to exploit your pain and provoke unforgiveness in your heart. But we declare that his schemes will not prevail, for greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). The harassment you’ve endured from neighbors—people you barely knew—is not random; it is a coordinated attack from the enemy, who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). Yet we serve a God who came to give life abundantly, and we refuse to let Satan have the final word over your peace.
First, we must address the spiritual reality of what you’re facing. The enemy often amplifies his attacks during times of vulnerability, such as your menstrual cycle and the challenges of PMDD. This is not a coincidence—it is a tactic to wear you down and make you feel isolated. But we rebuke this spirit of infirmity in the name of Jesus! We pray for divine healing over your body and mind, that the Lord would break the power of this condition and restore you to full health. We also pray for every woman suffering from PMDD, that they would turn to Christ for strength and find comfort in His presence. May they be drawn closer to Him, whether for the first time or in deeper surrender.
The repeated calls from your former neighbor are deeply concerning, especially given the history of harassment. While we want to extend grace and assume the best, we must also recognize that the enemy can use people—even unwittingly—to disrupt your peace. Scripture warns us to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves (Matthew 10:16). Blocking this person’s number may indeed be a prudent step to protect your peace and prevent further disturbance. You are not obligated to engage with someone who has been a source of harm, even if their actions were influenced by spiritual forces. The Lord calls us to guard our hearts (Proverbs 4:23), and sometimes that means setting firm boundaries.
We also want to address the importance of forgiveness in this situation. You’ve shown incredible maturity in softening your heart toward those who have wronged you, even as you recognize the need for caution. Forgiveness does not mean reconciling with those who may still pose a threat to your spiritual or emotional well-being. It means releasing the bitterness and entrusting justice to God (Romans 12:19). You can forgive without allowing harmful people back into your life, and that is a godly balance.
Now, let us pray together in the authority of Jesus’ name:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts heavy for our sister who has endured years of spiritual warfare. We thank You that she has not been destroyed by the enemy’s schemes, and we declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, we rebuke every spirit of harassment, infirmity, and division that has been at work in her life. We break the power of the enemy’s influence over her neighbors and anyone else who has been used to harm her. In the name of Jesus, we command these spirits to flee and never return.
Father, we ask for Your healing touch over her body, especially regarding the challenges of PMDD. We pray for a supernatural cure, that her cycles would be regulated and her mind and emotions would be at peace. We also lift up every woman suffering from this condition, that they would find hope and healing in You. Draw them close to Your heart, Lord, and let them experience Your love in a tangible way.
We pray for wisdom in how to handle this former neighbor. Give our sister discernment to know whether blocking this person’s number is the right step, and grant her peace in whatever decision she makes. Protect her from any further harassment or disturbance, and let her rest in the knowledge that You are her defender.
Father, we also ask that You continue to soften her heart toward those who have wronged her, even as she maintains healthy boundaries. Help her to forgive fully, without allowing bitterness to take root. Fill her with Your peace, joy, and strength, and let her walk in the victory that is already hers through Christ Jesus.
We thank You, Lord, that You are a God who sees, hears, and acts on behalf of Your children. We trust You to bring justice and restoration in this situation. May Your name be glorified, and may our sister feel Your presence surrounding her like a shield.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to stand firm in the truth that you are not alone in this battle. The Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Continue to seek Him in prayer and His Word, and lean on the support of fellow believers who can stand with you in faith. You are not a victim—you are a child of the Most High God, and He has equipped you with everything you need to overcome.
First, we must address the spiritual reality of what you’re facing. The enemy often amplifies his attacks during times of vulnerability, such as your menstrual cycle and the challenges of PMDD. This is not a coincidence—it is a tactic to wear you down and make you feel isolated. But we rebuke this spirit of infirmity in the name of Jesus! We pray for divine healing over your body and mind, that the Lord would break the power of this condition and restore you to full health. We also pray for every woman suffering from PMDD, that they would turn to Christ for strength and find comfort in His presence. May they be drawn closer to Him, whether for the first time or in deeper surrender.
The repeated calls from your former neighbor are deeply concerning, especially given the history of harassment. While we want to extend grace and assume the best, we must also recognize that the enemy can use people—even unwittingly—to disrupt your peace. Scripture warns us to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves (Matthew 10:16). Blocking this person’s number may indeed be a prudent step to protect your peace and prevent further disturbance. You are not obligated to engage with someone who has been a source of harm, even if their actions were influenced by spiritual forces. The Lord calls us to guard our hearts (Proverbs 4:23), and sometimes that means setting firm boundaries.
We also want to address the importance of forgiveness in this situation. You’ve shown incredible maturity in softening your heart toward those who have wronged you, even as you recognize the need for caution. Forgiveness does not mean reconciling with those who may still pose a threat to your spiritual or emotional well-being. It means releasing the bitterness and entrusting justice to God (Romans 12:19). You can forgive without allowing harmful people back into your life, and that is a godly balance.
Now, let us pray together in the authority of Jesus’ name:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts heavy for our sister who has endured years of spiritual warfare. We thank You that she has not been destroyed by the enemy’s schemes, and we declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, we rebuke every spirit of harassment, infirmity, and division that has been at work in her life. We break the power of the enemy’s influence over her neighbors and anyone else who has been used to harm her. In the name of Jesus, we command these spirits to flee and never return.
Father, we ask for Your healing touch over her body, especially regarding the challenges of PMDD. We pray for a supernatural cure, that her cycles would be regulated and her mind and emotions would be at peace. We also lift up every woman suffering from this condition, that they would find hope and healing in You. Draw them close to Your heart, Lord, and let them experience Your love in a tangible way.
We pray for wisdom in how to handle this former neighbor. Give our sister discernment to know whether blocking this person’s number is the right step, and grant her peace in whatever decision she makes. Protect her from any further harassment or disturbance, and let her rest in the knowledge that You are her defender.
Father, we also ask that You continue to soften her heart toward those who have wronged her, even as she maintains healthy boundaries. Help her to forgive fully, without allowing bitterness to take root. Fill her with Your peace, joy, and strength, and let her walk in the victory that is already hers through Christ Jesus.
We thank You, Lord, that You are a God who sees, hears, and acts on behalf of Your children. We trust You to bring justice and restoration in this situation. May Your name be glorified, and may our sister feel Your presence surrounding her like a shield.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to stand firm in the truth that you are not alone in this battle. The Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Continue to seek Him in prayer and His Word, and lean on the support of fellow believers who can stand with you in faith. You are not a victim—you are a child of the Most High God, and He has equipped you with everything you need to overcome.
We're right there with you, sister. It's so frustrating when we don't know what's triggering these attacks, isn't it? But remember, we're not fighting against flesh and blood here. It's spiritual warfare, and sometimes the enemy just wants to wear us down and make us feel crazy. But we know who's really in control, right?
Let's pray for wisdom and discernment. Lord, help us understand what's behind all this. Give us the strength to stand firm and not be swayed by these ridiculous tactics. And if blocking that person's number is what we need to do to protect our peace, then give us the courage to do it. We trust that You'll guide us in the right direction.
And hey, let's not forget to laugh a little too, okay? Satan hates it when we're joyful, so let's show him what we're made of! Keep your head up, sister. We're in this together.
Let's pray for wisdom and discernment. Lord, help us understand what's behind all this. Give us the strength to stand firm and not be swayed by these ridiculous tactics. And if blocking that person's number is what we need to do to protect our peace, then give us the courage to do it. We trust that You'll guide us in the right direction.
And hey, let's not forget to laugh a little too, okay? Satan hates it when we're joyful, so let's show him what we're made of! Keep your head up, sister. We're in this together.
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