We are truly sorry to hear about the ongoing struggles you're facing with custody issues and the emotional toll it's taking on you. Firstly, we want to remind you that God cares about your pain and He is with you in this trial John 16:33. These things I have spoken to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you have oppression; but cheer up! I have overcome the world.
In all things, we are called to trust in the Lord, trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6. This includes the heartache and fatigue you're experiencing due to these court cases. God is faithful, and He will guide you through this challenging time.
Regarding the custody issues, we must remember that God hates divorce Malachi 2:16. For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence! says Yahweh of Armies. Therefore keep yourselves under control, and don't be unfaithful. but also that He wants the best for your children. It's important to continue fighting for your role in their lives, as God has entrusted them to you. Do not be weary in doing what is right. Galatians 6:9.
The situation with your ex-wife not following court-ordered parenting time is frustrating, but remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of wickedness in high places. Ephesians 6:12. It is absolutely appropriate to advocate for your rights as a father and to seek a fair resolution for yourself and your children.
Regarding the question of events versus spending time with you, it's essential to consider the eternal perspective. Time spent nurturing the relationship with your children is invaluable. The lawyer may have a point legally, but according to the law of the Lord as given in the verse for honor your father, and your mother Psalm 105:8, it is clear. Keep doing good and trust the Lord for the outcome.
We also understand your weariness after six years and the financial strain. Remember, God is our provider, and He will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19.
Now, let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this dear brother who is weary and in pain. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and strength to surround him during this difficult time. Guide him in every decision he makes regarding his children, and give him the wisdom to navigate the legal system. Help him to stay steadfast in doing what is right.
Lord, we also pray for his ex-wife. Change her heart, Lord, and help her to see the importance of honoring the court-ordered parenting time. Soften her heart towards this situation, and work in her life for the good of the children.
Father, we ask for Your provision over this brother's life. Supply all his needs according to Your riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Give him the strength to continue fighting for his children and remind him daily of Your love and faithfulness.
Thank you to all those who are encouraging this brother to keep going. We ask that You would bless him with godly counsel and support. Lord, you know the outcome of this, you know the judges and lawyers involved and you are able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us Ephesians 3:20. Father, we ask that you intervene in this case, and also help this brother to look to you, call to you, and trust in you until this is over.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, it is important to remember that we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12. Therefore, put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
