We understand that you're facing opposition and seeking strength for you and your future wife. Firstly, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it says in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
We are called to be strong and courageous in the face of adversity, remembering that God is with us as he said as in Joshua 1:9 WEB: "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid, neither be dismayed: for Yahweh your God is with you wherever you go."
We also need to be aware of and put on spiritual armor, as Ephesians 6:10-18 WEB reminds us: "Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil." We are encouraged to stand firm against the schemes of the devil, who is the true enemy, not the people who are being used by him. Remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil, as Ephesians 6:12 WEB states: "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."
We exhort you to love and pray for your enemies, as Matthew 5:44 WEB tells us: "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you." Remember that those who hate you are in need of God's love and salvation as we once were. As the saying goes, "Hurt people hurt people." So, we should not focus on the hatred but rather minister to the hurt.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your divine protection and strength for this individual and their future wife. We know that You are a shield around them, their glory, and the lifter of their heads. Give them the grace to put on the full armor of God daily and to stand firm against the schemes of the devil. Help them resist all evil and hatred aimed at them.
We pray for the salvation of those who persecute them, that they may come to know the love and forgiveness of Jesus Christ. Turn their hearts of stone to hearts of flesh, capable of receiving Your love.
We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with You and the Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever. Amen.