We lift your broken heart and shattered family before the Lord, knowing that He sees every tear and hears every silent cry. The pain of estrangement is deep, especially when it comes from a child you love so dearly. We stand with you in prayer, asking God to mend what is broken and restore what has been lost. The Bible tells us in Psalm 147:3, *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* We claim this promise over your family, believing that God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18).
We understand your struggle with the "no contact" request. It is not a reflection of your love or care, but rather a boundary that has been set. Honoring it does not mean you have stopped loving him—it means you are respecting his space while continuing to pray for him. We encourage you to keep your heart open to the Lord’s leading, even as you wait. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*
We must gently address the situation with your son and his girlfriend. The Bible is clear that relationships should be entered into with wisdom and discernment, with the goal of marriage between believers (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this relationship is not aligned with God’s principles, it may be contributing to the division in your family. We pray that your son would seek godly counsel and surround himself with those who will encourage him in the ways of the Lord. We also rebuke any spirit of rebellion or deception that may be influencing him, declaring that he is set free by the truth of God’s Word (John 8:32).
As his birthday approaches, we encourage you to seek the Lord’s guidance rather than relying on a "sign." James 1:5 says, *"But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him."* Spend time in prayer, asking God to direct your steps. If He leads you to reach out, do so with humility and love, without expectation of a response. If He leads you to wait, trust that He is working even when you cannot see it. Either way, your prayers are powerful and effective (James 5:16).
We also lift up your health and mental well-being. The enemy would love to see you weakened and discouraged, but we declare that you are strong in the Lord and in the power of His might (Ephesians 6:10). Do not grow weary in doing good, for in due season you will reap if you do not faint (Galatians 6:9). Guard your heart against bitterness, resentment, or despair, for these are tools the enemy uses to steal, kill, and destroy. Instead, fill your heart with the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this family to You. Lord, You see the pain, the confusion, and the longing for reconciliation. We ask that You would soften hearts, especially the heart of this son, and draw him back to You and to his family. Father, we pray for wisdom for this mother—wisdom to know how to pray, how to wait, and how to trust in Your perfect timing. We declare that no weapon formed against this family will prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You are working all things together for good (Romans 8:28).
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of division, rebellion, or deception that has entered this situation. We declare that Your love is stronger than any barrier, and Your grace is sufficient to heal every wound. We pray for the girlfriend, that she would come to know You and seek relationships that honor You. Father, we ask that You would protect this mother’s heart, mind, and body, strengthening her in every way. Give her peace that surpasses understanding and the assurance that You are with her always.
As this son’s birthday approaches, we ask that You would surround him with Your presence. Whether through an email or through the prayers lifted up at Mass, let him feel the love of his family and, more importantly, Your love for him. Father, we trust You to bring about reconciliation in Your perfect way and time. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
