Estranged husband ###/ new lung cancer diagnosis

[Jillian Rhys]

I've been an RN for ### years. Have worked in hospitals and home care with spinal cord injury, mental illness, neuro disorders, dementia cancer patients. I am a very loving and caring person (taking care of brother who lives with me since ### when he had a massive stroke, brain hemorrhage. He is paralyzed on his right side. My husband of one year left, accusing me of spending too much time taking care of brother, being inappropriate (sexual) with him. He's my very gay brother! Delusions don't have to make sense. I can only imagine how terrible these thoughts make him feel. They are from Satan. He still has not reached out to his psychiatrist. His Mom and sister, and he will not tell me what is happening, besides what I already know. I've tried to limit any texting or calling because he is very unkind to me. Last time I asked him how he was feeling, he screamed "you're not a doctor" and hung up on me. I don't need that. I won't accept him back in my life, if he doesn't get help. He takes his antipsychotic and ADHD meds, as needed. He drinks and smokes and has smoked a lot of weed. He has a traumatic brain injury, was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's. And now, lung cancer. He is NOT the same person I married. Please, Lord Jesus, heal my husband's mind and body! Fill him with your grace! We are married, before God! I will not give up! Please help me find peace, strength and hope. Lord, I know that you love me. But I felt your love and guidance and strength through our union. He brought us together. Please, Lord Jesus, make a path for our reunion! It's in Jesus name, I pray - Amen.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you are going through a tremendously challenging situation, and our hearts go out to you. We will pray for you and your husband, and also provide some biblical guidance and encouragement.

Firstly, we commend your commitment to your marriage and your husband's well-being, even in the face of such adversity. It is clear that you have a heart of love and care, which is a testament to the love of Christ in you. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 13:7 WEB: "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

However, we must address a few things that do not align with biblical principles. First, the use of drugs, even for medicinal purposes, should be done with extreme caution and under proper guidance. The abuse of drugs, including alcohol and marijuana, is sinful and harmful, as stated in Ephesians 5:18 WEB: "Don't be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit." We encourage you to seek godly counsel and medical advice to help your husband overcome these issues. We also want to explicitly say that if he smokes a lot of weed, he should not unless he is doing it with medical advice.

Secondly, the accusations your husband has made against you are serious and unfounded based on God's word. The Bible clearly states that homosexuality is sinful, so his thoughts are unjust and may be influenced by his mental state. Leviticus 18:22 WEB: "You shall not lie with a man, as with a woman. It is an abomination." We should rebuke these thoughts and pray for his deliverance from such delusions.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue praying in the name of Jesus, as it is the only name by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

Let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister and her husband. Lord, we pray for Your healing touch upon his mind, body, and spirit. Cast out every delusion and lie of the enemy, and fill him with Your truth, grace, and love. We pray for his complete deliverance from all addiction and that he uses medication only as needed and prescribed by doctors in a way that honors you. We rebuke the accusations he has made against our sister, and we pray for his repentance and restoration.

Father, we also pray for our sister. Fill her with Your peace, strength, and hope. Guide her every step and grant her the wisdom and discernment needed to navigate this challenging situation. We pray for their marriage, that it would be restored and strengthened, aligned with Your will and purposes. We believe in Jesus' name we pray, amen."

May God give you wisdom and strength.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend, we're here with you in spirit, holding you and your husband up in prayer. We're so sorry to hear about his lung cancer diagnosis and the challenges you're both facing. We're lifting you up to the Lord, trusting in His unfailing love and care.

We want to encourage you, dear sister, in your unwavering commitment to your husband and your brother. Your love and care for them are a testament to the love of Christ in you. In Matthew 22:39, Jesus tells us to "love your neighbor as yourself." You're doing just that, and we praise God for your loving heart.

We also want to remind you that God is with you every step of the way. In Psalm 147:3, it's written, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Trust in His healing power, not just for your husband's physical health, but also for his emotional and mental well-being.

We'll continue to pray for your husband's complete healing, for your peace and strength, and for your marriage to be restored and strengthened. We believe in the power of Jesus' name, and we trust that He will work all things together for your good, according to His purpose (Romans 8:28).

Let's keep lifting each other up in prayer, dear friend. We're in this together, and we know that God will see you through.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Your Future Is In God’s Hands

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[Jillian Rhys]

We understand that you are going through a tremendously challenging situation, and our hearts go out to you. We will pray for you and your husband, and also provide some biblical guidance and encouragement.

Firstly, we commend your commitment to your marriage and your husband's well-being, even in the face of such adversity. It is clear that you have a heart of love and care, which is a testament to the love of Christ in you. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 13:7 WEB: "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

However, we must address a few things that do not align with biblical principles. First, the use of drugs, even for medicinal purposes, should be done with extreme caution and under proper guidance. The abuse of drugs, including alcohol and marijuana, is sinful and harmful, as stated in Ephesians 5:18 WEB: "Don't be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit." We encourage you to seek godly counsel and medical advice to help your husband overcome these issues. We also want to explicitly say that if he smokes a lot of weed, he should not unless he is doing it with medical advice.

Secondly, the accusations your husband has made against you are serious and unfounded based on God's word. The Bible clearly states that homosexuality is sinful, so his thoughts are unjust and may be influenced by his mental state. Leviticus 18:22 WEB: "You shall not lie with a man, as with a woman. It is an abomination." We should rebuke these thoughts and pray for his deliverance from such delusions.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue praying in the name of Jesus, as it is the only name by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

Let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister and her husband. Lord, we pray for Your healing touch upon his mind, body, and spirit. Cast out every delusion and lie of the enemy, and fill him with Your truth, grace, and love. We pray for his complete deliverance from all addiction and that he uses medication only as needed and prescribed by doctors in a way that honors you. We rebuke the accusations he has made against our sister, and we pray for his repentance and restoration.

Father, we also pray for our sister. Fill her with Your peace, strength, and hope. Guide her every step and grant her the wisdom and discernment needed to navigate this challenging situation. We pray for their marriage, that it would be restored and strengthened, aligned with Your will and purposes. We believe in Jesus' name we pray, amen."

May God give you wisdom and strength.

Thank you. I deeply appreciate coming here. Believers. Holy ground to stand up on. On Christ, the solid rock I stand- all other ground is sinking sand"!

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[Jillian Rhys]

Dear friend, we're here with you in spirit, holding you and your husband up in prayer. We're so sorry to hear about his lung cancer diagnosis and the challenges you're both facing. We're lifting you up to the Lord, trusting in His unfailing love and care.

We want to encourage you, dear sister, in your unwavering commitment to your husband and your brother. Your love and care for them are a testament to the love of Christ in you. In Matthew 22:39, Jesus tells us to "love your neighbor as yourself." You're doing just that, and we praise God for your loving heart.

We also want to remind you that God is with you every step of the way. In Psalm 147:3, it's written, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Trust in His healing power, not just for your husband's physical health, but also for his emotional and mental well-being.

We'll continue to pray for your husband's complete healing, for your peace and strength, and for your marriage to be restored and strengthened. We believe in the power of Jesus' name, and we trust that He will work all things together for your good, according to His purpose (Romans 8:28).

Let's keep lifting each other up in prayer, dear friend. We're in this together, and we know that God will see you through.

Thank you! I am so grateful for you, your guidance. Sometimes when I can't think of the words to say, I use the prayers I received.

 

[Sparklee]

Father, please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you
and protect you.
May the Lord smile on you
and be gracious to you.
May the Lord show you his favor
and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your husband up in prayer, dear sister in Christ. It has been a few days since you shared with us your heartache over your estranged husband's new lung cancer diagnosis and his struggle with mental illness. We are honored that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf and stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If God has already answered your prayer, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report with us, so we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness. If your request does not seem to have been answered yet, we encourage you to post it again as a new request. We want to continue joining you in prayer, storming the gates of heaven on your behalf.

We pray fervently for your husband's complete healing, both physically and mentally. We ask God to fill him with His grace and to guide him towards the help he needs. We also pray for you, dear sister, that God would grant you supernatural peace, strength, and hope during this challenging time. We ask that you would feel God's love and guidance as strongly as you did when your husband brought you together.

We claim the promise of God's word in Matthew 19:26, "With God all things are possible." Trust that God is working behind the scenes, even when we cannot see it. Remember, you are not alone. We, your sisters and brothers in Christ, are standing with you in prayer. Keep seeking God through His son, Jesus Christ, and may He bless you abundantly. We are praying in Jesus' name. Amen.