Estranged adult child
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We lift up your heartache before the Father, knowing how deeply it grieves Him to see families broken and children walking in deception. Your son’s estrangement and embrace of the transgender lifestyle is not God’s design—it is a rebellion against His perfect order, where He created humanity as male and female (Genesis 1:27). The enemy seeks to distort identity, but we declare that your son was fearfully and wonderfully made by the Lord (Psalm 139:13-16), and his true identity is found in Christ alone.
The Word warns that in the last days, people will exchange the truth for lies (Romans 1:25), and we see this manifesting in the cultural push to reject God’s design. But take heart—our God is a redeemer of lost sheep, and He pursues those who wander (Luke 15:4-7). Your son’s political disagreement may be a surface excuse, but the deeper battle is spiritual. We pray the Holy Spirit convicts him of his need for repentance, not just toward you, but toward God.
We also recognize that reconciliation begins with humility. Have you examined whether your own words or actions—even unintentionally—pushed him away? Proverbs 15:1 reminds us that a gentle answer turns away wrath. If there’s unconfessed pride or harshness, we urge you to repent, for God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble (James 4:6). Yet even if you’ve done nothing wrong, Scripture commands us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This is not about condoning sin but demonstrating Christ’s love, which has the power to break hardened hearts.
Father, we plead for this son’s salvation—open his eyes to the deception he’s embraced. Break the strongholds of confusion and rebellion in his mind. Let him encounter You in dreams, visions, or through Your Word, so he turns from this path of destruction. Softening his heart toward his parents is secondary; first, let him surrender to You. If political divisions have fueled this rift, Lord, remove the scales from his eyes. Give his parents wisdom to speak truth in love (Ephesians 4:15), and if they’ve erred, grant them the courage to seek forgiveness.
We stand against the spirit of estrangement and declare that no weapon formed against this family will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). Let this son return not just physically, but spiritually—redeemed, renewed, and walking in Your truth. May he one day testify of Your mercy, as the prodigal did (Luke 15:21).
To the parents: Do not lose hope. Keep praying, fasting, and trusting God’s timing. And if you haven’t already, ensure your own relationship with Christ is vibrant—your son needs to see authenticity, not just words. The battle is the Lord’s, and He is faithful to complete the work He begins (Philippians 1:6).
*"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit."* —Psalm 34:18 (WEB)
The Word warns that in the last days, people will exchange the truth for lies (Romans 1:25), and we see this manifesting in the cultural push to reject God’s design. But take heart—our God is a redeemer of lost sheep, and He pursues those who wander (Luke 15:4-7). Your son’s political disagreement may be a surface excuse, but the deeper battle is spiritual. We pray the Holy Spirit convicts him of his need for repentance, not just toward you, but toward God.
We also recognize that reconciliation begins with humility. Have you examined whether your own words or actions—even unintentionally—pushed him away? Proverbs 15:1 reminds us that a gentle answer turns away wrath. If there’s unconfessed pride or harshness, we urge you to repent, for God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble (James 4:6). Yet even if you’ve done nothing wrong, Scripture commands us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This is not about condoning sin but demonstrating Christ’s love, which has the power to break hardened hearts.
Father, we plead for this son’s salvation—open his eyes to the deception he’s embraced. Break the strongholds of confusion and rebellion in his mind. Let him encounter You in dreams, visions, or through Your Word, so he turns from this path of destruction. Softening his heart toward his parents is secondary; first, let him surrender to You. If political divisions have fueled this rift, Lord, remove the scales from his eyes. Give his parents wisdom to speak truth in love (Ephesians 4:15), and if they’ve erred, grant them the courage to seek forgiveness.
We stand against the spirit of estrangement and declare that no weapon formed against this family will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). Let this son return not just physically, but spiritually—redeemed, renewed, and walking in Your truth. May he one day testify of Your mercy, as the prodigal did (Luke 15:21).
To the parents: Do not lose hope. Keep praying, fasting, and trusting God’s timing. And if you haven’t already, ensure your own relationship with Christ is vibrant—your son needs to see authenticity, not just words. The battle is the Lord’s, and He is faithful to complete the work He begins (Philippians 1:6).
*"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit."* —Psalm 34:18 (WEB)
We're here with you, praying for your son, just as you are. It's heartbreaking when children drift away, but we know our God is a God of restoration and redemption. We join you in asking for his return, not just physically, but also spiritually, that he may find his true identity in Christ.
We're lifting up your family before the Lord, asking Him to soften your son's heart towards you and to open his eyes to the truth. We pray that any political divisions or disagreements don't overshadow the love and unity that should exist within a family. We ask for wisdom for you, as parents, to speak truth in love, and if there's anything in your own hearts that might have contributed to this rift, we pray for courage to seek forgiveness where needed.
We claim the promise in Romans 8:28, that God works all things together for the good of those who love Him, and we trust that this situation is no exception. We're standing with you, believing that God will turn this around for His glory and your son's good.
Keep holding on to hope, and keep praying. We're here with you, believing in the power of prayer and the love of our God.
We're lifting up your family before the Lord, asking Him to soften your son's heart towards you and to open his eyes to the truth. We pray that any political divisions or disagreements don't overshadow the love and unity that should exist within a family. We ask for wisdom for you, as parents, to speak truth in love, and if there's anything in your own hearts that might have contributed to this rift, we pray for courage to seek forgiveness where needed.
We claim the promise in Romans 8:28, that God works all things together for the good of those who love Him, and we trust that this situation is no exception. We're standing with you, believing that God will turn this around for His glory and your son's good.
Keep holding on to hope, and keep praying. We're here with you, believing in the power of prayer and the love of our God.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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