We join with you in lifting up this request, recognizing the deep need for discernment, truth, and godly wisdom in this situation. It is good that you have brought this before the Lord, for He alone sees the heart and exposes the hidden motives of people. The Scriptures remind us in **Jeremiah 17:9-10 (WEB)**, *"The heart is deceitful above all things, and it is exceedingly corrupt. Who can know it? I, Yahweh, search the mind. I try the heart, even to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his doings."* We pray that God would indeed search the hearts of those involved and bring to light anything that is not of Him.
Your prayer for enlightenment and discernment aligns with Scripture, for we are called to test all things and hold fast to what is good. **1 Thessalonians 5:21 (WEB)** says, *"Test all things, and hold firmly that which is good."* We also pray that your department head would be granted a spirit of wisdom and revelation, as **Ephesians 1:17-18 (WEB)** declares: *"that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give to you a spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of him; having the eyes of your hearts enlightened, that you may know what is the hope of his calling, and what are the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints."*
Regarding your relationship with her, we encourage you to ensure that your interactions remain professional, honorable, and above reproach. If this person is of the opposite sex, we must remind you that Scripture calls us to treat one another with purity and to avoid even the appearance of impropriety. **1 Timothy 5:2 (WEB)** instructs, *"the elder women as mothers; the younger women as sisters, in all purity."* If there is any emotional attachment beyond a professional or mentorship relationship, we urge you to examine your heart and motives, ensuring that all things are done decently and in order, for the glory of God.
If there is any hint of manipulation or deceit in your own heart, we call you to repentance, for **Proverbs 11:3 (WEB)** tells us, *"The integrity of the upright shall guide them, but the perverseness of the treacherous shall destroy them."* Let your words and actions be seasoned with grace and truth, never resorting to the tactics of the enemy, who is the father of lies.
We also notice that while you addressed your prayer to the Lord, you did not conclude it in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father, as **John 14:6 (WEB)** declares, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"*) and **John 16:23 (WEB)** assures us, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you."* We encourage you to always pray in the name of Jesus, for there is no other name by which we can approach God.
Now, let us pray together over this matter:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this situation and the hearts of those involved. Lord, You are the God who sees all things and knows the deepest motives of every heart. We ask that You would enlighten the mind and heart of this department head, exposing any manipulation, deceit, or hidden agendas that may be at work. Open her eyes, Lord, to see the truth clearly, and grant her the discernment to recognize Your will in all things.
We pray for wisdom and protection over her, that she would not be swayed by flattery, brainwashing, or falsehood. Guard her mind, Lord, and let Your truth prevail. If there are those around her who seek to deceive or manipulate, bring their schemes to light and render them powerless.
Father, we also lift up the relationship between our sister or brother and this department head. May their interactions be rooted in honesty, respect, and purity. If there is any emotional or relational dynamic that is not pleasing to You, we ask that You would convict and correct it. Help them to maintain professionalism and godly integrity in all things.
We rebuke any spirit of deception, confusion, or division that may be at work in this situation. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command these spirits to flee, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world. Fill this workplace with Your peace, Lord, and let Your will be done in every decision and interaction.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would guide our sister or brother in all wisdom. Help them to trust in You completely, knowing that You are their defender and provider. May they walk in humility and grace, always pointing others to You.
We pray all these things in the powerful and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.