Employment,financiall Miracle

[brendavila]

I am a single mother and have raised my children alone. My ex husband was physically abusive to me and our children. God blessed me with a wonderful job and I was able to care for my family. Suddenly almost 3 yrs ago I became extremely ill and had to have surgery,then was in and out of the hospital for months. Becuaz my ex husband had remarried and seemed to have changed soo much I asked him to enroll our youngest son in school till I knew when I could care for him myself again. He agreed and my son seemed happy. After my healing thanks to Gods healing power. I waited till the school year was over so I could bring my son home. Then suddenly I got the paperwork from the attorney general saying I know owed child support cuz my ex had custody of my little boy. It took me by surprise and sent me realing into a deep depression. I was helping my daughter deal with being raped and wanting to commit suicide and my health was wek and now this? It was too much to take. I became so depressed that I eventually lost my job,my car,my home and had to move from friend to friend trying to find work again. Because I dont have a car it has been very hard to get work. Now the only way I can see my son is to live in an RV in my ex husbands backyard. I need God to bless me like I never have before. He has done wonderful things for me and I have faith that He will see me through. I just am so humiliated and feel so defeated having to live off of the man that put us through so much for 17 yrs. Its as if I am right back where I left off when we divorced,and our grown children wont even speak to him. He is still cruel and will do whatever he can to make you feel inferior. Please I ask that you pray that God will open the doors for me and I will not only get another job,even better than the one I lost but just like Job I will be blessed with more than I had before the enemy came and took it all from me. I am in desperate need of a car so I can work and get out of this RV. I have to believe this is NOT what God has for me but, I dont know what to do anymore. I ask for your prayers with all my faith in God the almighty,Lord of Lords!! Alleluya!!

 

[Rosa N]

Lord God the Father, I pray help Brenda with employment. Please help her out of this situation. Lord you know her needs. I believe in you. I know You will help her. Amen

 

[kerryos]

Lord, please help this woman to forgive her ex-husband and to pray for him. Please help this woman to be grateful that she has a roof over her head and three beautiful children. Help this woman to be able to have a good relationship with her ex. Heal her relationships with her children. Help her daughter to become whole again. Lord, I ask you to do your will upon this situation. Lord let they will be done with the ex-husband, with his current wife, with this woman writing a prayer, with their three beautiful children. If it is your will to have this woman find employment and a GREAT job, let thy will be done. If it is your will to have this woman reconcile with her ex-husband, let thy will be done. Thank you Lord, for whatever your will is. Help us to accept your will and to embrace it. Thank you. Amen.

 

[brendavila]

Lord, please help this woman to forgive her ex-husband and to pray for him. Please help this woman to be grateful that she has a roof over her head and three beautiful children. Help this woman to be able to have a good relationship with her ex. Heal her relationships with her children. Help her daughter to become whole again. Lord, I ask you to do your will upon this situation. Lord let they will be done with the ex-husband, with his current wife, with this woman writing a prayer, with their three beautiful children. If it is your will to have this woman find employment and a GREAT job, let thy will be done. If it is your will to have this woman reconcile with her ex-husband, let thy will be done. Thank you Lord, for whatever your will is. Help us to accept your will and to embrace it. Thank you. Amen.

 

[kimjr10]

Lord I pray that you bless this lady to give her not only the job that will help her and her family become financially stable but a job that will give her an abundance of youre blessing in order to help other women in children in her situation. Prepare her for the joy and blessing she is about to be in the lives of other and help her to stay strong through this journey. I ask this in Jesus name

 

[brendavila]

I am praying for that God will help me forgive my ex husband for the abuse he put us through. I am very close to my children, it is their father they cannot have a real relationship with because he demeans them,humiliates them and will not ask for forgivenss for all the things he does to them. I have 4 beautiful children. I do thank God for the roof over my head everynight as I lay my head to sleep. I just know that God saw the pain I was in when I was being abused and He gave me a way out. I allowed the enemy to put me here again. I know God will open the doors of blessings to me again as he has before. He knows my heart and He knows I pray for my ex husband and his wife. But the constant reminders of how I failed are stabs from the enemy to bring me down and I know THAT Is Not from GOD! My heart has no ill will towards anyone. I just need to get away from the constant abuse and ridicule. Because this is not where God wants me to be. Thank you for your prayers.

 

[kerryos]

dear brenda vila: i so understand your plight. My husband was abusive too. When he finally left I was so happy not to be around the abuse anymore, but it continued in the way he controled visitation with the children. And he eventually, after 2 years of battling me in the court system, won custody of the three children. They are young, ages 5 ,4 and 2. I was a stay at home mom, so now he has placed them in a daycare center and preschool. They dont understand why Mommy has been removed from their lives. Because he got the children, he also gets the home that he left me with. Since he's the only one with a high paying job, he gets the responsibility of financially taking care of the house and the children. I get visitation with my three beautiful children. He told the court that I was abusive to HIM! And everyone believes him because they would rather ruin the reputation of a soon-to-be divorced unemployed woman, then a electrical engineer, with a beautiful home and three beautiful children. I was a married woman in a beautiful home with three beautiful children (and an abusive husband that I tried to hide), and because he left, I was a woman who had been left by her husband with three beautiful children. Now, because my husband continued his abuse in a court of law (told the court that I had some mental issues, and covered up allegations that my oldest daughter started to say about him), I have been stripped of my home and all of my parental rights for my three beautiful children. I'm not even allowed to take them to the doctor when they get sick. The State will not let me. Because I began talking about my husband's abuse, and not protecting his image, I was targeted. Now, the court of law is forcing me out of my home, and I am unemployed with no income. I don't think this is what the Lord has for me either, so I understand where you are coming from. I am trying to forgive my husband and to thank the Lord for what he is providing for me. My husband is making ME pay child support to him! And I have no job, and he makes over $100K a year. He has arranged a situation that if I am unable to pay it, I will be put in jail and lose my ability to operate a vehicle in the State of Virginia. All within a matter of 2 months, I went from stay at home affluent mom, to mom who had parental rights stripped from her, and moving to a 1-BR apartment. If I dont find a job soon, I wont be able to pay for it or the child support obligation. It's a horrible situation. It is as if my worst nightmare is happening. But what do I do? My husband wants to divorce me and wants me out of his life and the kids' lives. The kids are being so hurt, particularly my oldest daughter who doesn't understand why we're not together anymore. My husband just wants me to walk away, give up on the kids, and let him have what he wants: the kids, the house, everything. He doesn't care where or how I end up. After he almost killed me one night in our family room, it should have been clear to me then that he wanted to severely hurt me, or dead. He told everyone that he moved out because he thought he was going to kill me. How does a man who tells others that he thinks he's going to kill his wife get awarded custody of three children and a family home that he abandoned? It's beyond me. I have a HUGE courtcase coming up in July about it. I just pray that I'm able to present all the evidence in a rational way so that the lawyers and judges see what was/is REALLY going on, rather than believing his lies. I'm praying for you.

 

[trishg]

Lord please help us as you said in Jeremiah 33:3 if we call on you you will answer.

please hear us as we pray, In Jesus name Amem

 

[kerryos]

when the Lord calls, we must answer. our blessings yet await.