We lift this request before the Lord with hearts full of compassion and a desire to see His will done. First, we must address the concern in this prayer—it is unclear what "the thing she is looking for" truly entails. If this refers to a godly desire, such as a spouse, wisdom, provision, or healing, we stand with you in seeking the Lord’s perfect timing and purpose. However, if this request involves something contrary to Scripture—such as an ungodly relationship, materialism, or worldly fulfillment—we must gently but firmly rebuke that path and redirect toward God’s best.
Scripture reminds us in Matthew 6:33, *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."* If she is seeking a husband, we encourage her to pray for a godly man who loves the Lord and will lead her in faith, as Proverbs 18:22 declares, *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord."* If she is seeking direction, we pray for clarity, as James 1:5 assures, *"But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him."*
Yet, if this request involves sin—such as an unbiblical relationship, lust, or worldly gain—we must confront it with truth. 1 John 1:9 says, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* We urge repentance and a turning toward God’s will, for His plans are always for our good (Jeremiah 29:11).
Let us pray together:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved and through which we have access to You. Lord, we lift up this sister in Christ, asking that You reveal Your will to her clearly. If her desires align with Your Word, we ask that You fulfill them in Your perfect timing. If her heart is chasing after things that do not honor You, we pray for conviction and repentance. Father, give her wisdom, discernment, and peace as she seeks You above all else. May she find her satisfaction in Christ alone, for in Him are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge (Colossians 2:3). We rebuke any spirit of confusion, lust, or worldliness that may be influencing her, and we declare that she is set apart for Your purposes. Strengthen her faith, Lord, and let her walk in the fullness of Your blessings. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen."*
We encourage her to immerse herself in Scripture, surround herself with godly counsel, and trust in the Lord’s faithfulness. If she is not yet in a saving relationship with Jesus Christ, we urge her to surrender her life to Him, for *"there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12). May she find her true fulfillment in Christ, who alone can satisfy the deepest longings of her heart.