Divorce after childloss

[Nxidor]

Hello again.

This is not something I want to continue doing but the Lord has not removed the love I have for my husband.

My husband divorced me in November.

Our son died in my womb in August.

I’ve been bussing him phone like a lunatic trying to get him to communicate with me.

I spent many days alone, and nights alone crying about everything when I wish I could just communicate and go back to my husband.

Please pray for me because I’m going through suicidal depression. I’ve started to pray for God to take my life away so I could be with him, and my son.

And please pray for my husband. He isn’t there anymore. He has turned into an enemy, he lacks empathy. I always answer the phone for him, he never answers the phone for me. This can go on for weeks and sometimes even months. And this isn’t a game I enjoy playing. He has been waltzing in and out as he pleases, and has been talking to other women on top of me.

 

[Articles]

We are truly heartbroken to hear about the loss of your son and the breakdown of your marriage. We are here to pray with you and to offer biblical guidance in this difficult time.

Firstly, we want to address the issue of divorce. In Malachi 2:16 (WEB), it says, "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence, says Yahweh of Armies. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let no one deal treacherously." God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. We pray that there will be a path to reconciliation, if at all possible.

Regarding the loss of your child, we want to assure you that God is close to the brokenhearted. In Psalm 34:18 (WEB), it says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." It is normal to grieve, but we want to encourage you not to lose heart. In 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 (WEB), it says, "We are pressed on every side, yet not crushed; perplexed, yet not to despair; pursued, yet not forsaken; struck down, yet not destroyed."

We also want to address the feelings of suicide and depression. It is important to remember that God has a purpose for your life. In Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), it says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Also, remember that God can heal the brokenhearted. In Psalm 147:3 (WEB), it says, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." We urge you to seek professional help if you are feeling suicidal.

Regarding your husband's behavior, we want to remind you that God calls us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us. In Matthew 5:44 (WEB), it says, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,"

Now, let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister who is going through immense pain and suffering. Lord, we pray for Your comfort and healing in her life. We pray that You would minister to her broken heart and give her the strength to endure this trial.

Lord, we also pray for her husband. We pray that You would soften his heart and turn him back to You. We pray that You would bring conviction upon him and draw him to repentance. We pray that You would work a miracle in their marriage and bring reconciliation if it is Your will.

Lord, we also pray for protection over this sister. We pray that You would keep love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control abundant in her life. We pray that You would give her hope for the future and a purpose to live for.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue to pray and seek God's face in this trial. Remember that God is faithful and that He will never leave you nor forsake you.

We would also like to point out that we do not see the name of Jesus mentioned in your request. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. In Acts 4:12 (WEB), it says, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" We encourage you to call upon the name of Jesus and trust in Him for your salvation.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend, we're here with you, holding you close in our hearts. We're so sorry for the pain you're going through, the loss of your child, and the strain in your marriage. It's like you're carrying a heavy backpack, and we wish we could take some of that weight off your shoulders.

We want you to know that God sees you, He hears your cries, and He's right there with you. In Psalm 147:3, it says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Trust that God is in the business of healing, and He's working in your life too.

We've been praying for you, asking God to comfort you, to give you strength, and to guide you through this tough time. We've also been praying for your husband, that God would soften his heart and bring him back to you, if it's God's will.

Remember, it's okay to feel overwhelmed, but please, please don't lose hope. God has a purpose for your life, and He's not done with you yet. In Jeremiah 29:11, it says, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

Keep trusting in God, keep praying, and keep seeking His face. And remember, you're not alone. We're here for you, praying for you, every step of the way.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[hostadmin]

We continue to uphold you in our prayers, dear sister, and we are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you. We trust that God is working in your situation, even if it is not evident yet. If you have seen any answers to your prayers, we would be encouraged to hear your praise report. If your husband's heart has not yet softened, or if you are still wrestling with depression, we urge you to share that with us as well. We want to continue praying for you both, that God would bring healing, restoration, and comfort to your hearts.

We have been praying for your emotional well-being, that God would lift you out of the pit of despair and set your feet upon a rock, giving you a firm place to stand (Psalm 40:2). We have also been interceding for your husband, asking God to draw him close, to soften his heart, and to give him a spirit of empathy and understanding. We pray that God would miraculously work in your marriage, bringing life to what was once dead, and restoring what was once lost.

Please know that you are not alone. We are here with you, praying for you, and believing for God's best in your life. Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and keep believing that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). May God bless you and keep you in His loving care as you continue to draw closer to His son, Jesus Christ. We are continually bringing your needs before the throne in Jesus Name.