Divorce after child loss

[Staesorfield]

Hello.

I’m very tired and I no longer know what to do.

It’s hard for me to write these prayer requests, sometimes I want to bare my soul and what transpired so that everyone would know the depths of the situation but God knows and if you can intercede for me in the name of Jesus I’d be grateful.

I was 7 months pregnant and I lost my son.

When I lost my son, I was neglected by my husband and my husband’s family treated me poorly. I was upset, angry, confused and hurt.

Since late August, I’ve been fighting tooth and nail trying to reconcile with my husband. Sometimes he’s there for me but most times he’s not. We are divorced, it was finalized in November. I never wanted this divorce. I am a very romantic person, and I truly love my husband and I don’t want another man. He is, and was my best friend but our families got into it and we got into it after the loss of our baby.

I’ve been mourning my husband, and my son on a daily basis. I’m twenty-six years old and I feel as if I’m dying and being revived every single day of my life since all of this happened.

My husband breadcrumbs me, and then goes missing saying he doesn’t want me.

He has been posting pictures of himself shirtless on social media, and following women.

I’ve tried to get him jealous too, but at the end of the day I don’t want a life without him. I don’t want another man’s babies, or a life with anyone else.

After two months of not speaking, he called me asking about arrangements for plots regarding our son and how to go about that, and from there we talked for a couple weeks and we were acting normal and he just snapped saying he can’t do this anymore, and that he doesn’t want me and he doesn’t know what he’s doing with his life.

He has a lot of people whispering in his ear, a lot of people deceiving him.

I never thought he’d hurt me like this but he does, and I don’t know what to do anymore.

Since August I’ve made over a dozen accounts trying to reach out to him only to get blocked, I’ve sent letters to his house only to be thrown away, I don’t have a phone number I don’t have nothing.

And yes we’re both born again believers.

If you can please pray for us I’d appreciate it because I’m at a loss for words and I stopped messaging and calling for the first time since August.

God bless you please pray for the both of us because we went crazy after the loss of our baby.

I feel like I can’t go on anymore and I’ve been fighting my best not to relapse, and get my life together after the loss of my son and my husband divorcing me.

If anyone has prayer walls please add my name to it, I know we’re not allowed to share names but mine starts with K and his starts with T. K+T’s marriage.. please pray for us that God would move on my behalf because I’m giving up, I feel forced and cornered to give up on my marriage after being blocked again on everything.

 

[Articles]

We are truly heartbroken to hear about the loss of your son and the subsequent struggles in your marriage. We are here to intercede for you and your husband in the name of Jesus Christ.

Firstly, we acknowledge your pain and the immense difficulty you're facing. The loss of a child is an unimaginable tragedy, and it's understandable that grief has taken a toll on your marriage. However, we must remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. Divorce is not God's will, as it is clear in Malachi 2:16 IEB, "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel...".

We commend you for your efforts in trying to reconcile your marriage, as you both are born again believers. It's important to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms (Ephesians 6:12 WEB).

However, we must rebuke the behavior of your husband posting shirtless pictures and following other women. This is not acceptable for a man of God. 1 Timothy 3:2 WEB states that an overseer (a position all men of God should strive for) must be "the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, given to hospitality, able to teach."

We also must address your attempts to make him jealous. This is not a godly behavior and will not bring the desired reconciliation. Proverbs 14:30 WEB says, "A calm heart is the life of the body, but envy rots the bones."

We encourage you to surrender this situation entirely to God. Seek His will and trust in Him. Remember, God can turn even the most dire situations around for His glory. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister and her husband. We pray for comfort during the mourning over the child, We pray for healing in their marriage, and a renewed commitment to each other and to You. We rebuke the spirits of division, temptation and envy, and we ask for Your guidance and wisdom to be upon them. We pray that You would soften their hearts, help them to forgive each other, and to remember the covenant they made before You. We ask this all in Jesus' mighty name, for He lives and reigns with You and the Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever. Amen.

Please stay strong in the Lord and keep praying. Add to your prayer Psalm 37:4 WEB, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." God will bring restoration and healing to your marriage if both of you are willing to be open to the Holy Spirit. Write out your prayers and study the Word of God.

We pray that God would send Christian friends to help you cope. Remember to successfully cope with grief, it takes the Lord Jesus Christ, time and support of other Christian Believers. Make sure you are attending a Bible preaching church. You need to be around other Christians for support during this time of your life.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear ###,

We're so sorry to hear about the loss of your son and the struggles in your marriage. It's truly heartbreaking, and we're here for you, praying in Jesus' name.

We understand that your husband's actions have hurt you deeply, and it's natural to feel confused and angry. But remember, God is a God of restoration and healing. He can mend what's broken, even marriages torn apart by grief and misunderstanding.

We've been praying for you both, asking God to soften your husband's heart, to help him see the pain he's causing, and to guide him back to you and your son. We're also praying for you, dear ###, for strength and patience as you navigate this difficult time.

We encourage you to keep reaching out to your husband, but remember, it's okay to set boundaries for your own well-being. Keep praying, keep trusting in God's plan, and keep seeking His will for your marriage.

Let's continue to pray together, "God, please heal our ###'s marriage. Help her husband to see the error of his ways and turn back to his family. Comfort our ### in her grief and give her strength to endure. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're here for you, ###. Keep fighting the good fight, and remember, God's got this. Trust in Him.

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[Stitcher]

Praying that you will find good counsel. Find a church group that supports people during broken marriages, like ###. Praying for you in your grief and that you would have the wisdom to make the right decisions.
I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[Anonymous]

Hello.

I’m very tired and I no longer know what to do.

It’s hard for me to write these prayer requests, sometimes I want to bare my soul and what transpired so that everyone would know the depths of the situation but God knows and if you can intercede for me in the name of Jesus I’d be grateful.

I was 7 months pregnant and I lost my son.

When I lost my son, I was neglected by my husband and my husband’s family treated me poorly. I was upset, angry, confused and hurt.

Since late August, I’ve been fighting tooth and nail trying to reconcile with my husband. Sometimes he’s there for me but most times he’s not. We are divorced, it was finalized in November. I never wanted this divorce. I am a very romantic person, and I truly love my husband and I don’t want another man. He is, and was my best friend but our families got into it and we got into it after the loss of our baby.

I’ve been mourning my husband, and my son on a daily basis. I’m twenty-six years old and I feel as if I’m dying and being revived every single day of my life since all of this happened.

My husband breadcrumbs me, and then goes missing saying he doesn’t want me.

He has been posting pictures of himself shirtless on social media, and following women.

I’ve tried to get him jealous too, but at the end of the day I don’t want a life without him. I don’t want another man’s babies, or a life with anyone else.

After two months of not speaking, he called me asking about arrangements for plots regarding our son and how to go about that, and from there we talked for a couple weeks and we were acting normal and he just snapped saying he can’t do this anymore, and that he doesn’t want me and he doesn’t know what he’s doing with his life.

He has a lot of people whispering in his ear, a lot of people deceiving him.

I never thought he’d hurt me like this but he does, and I don’t know what to do anymore.

Since August I’ve made over a dozen accounts trying to reach out to him only to get blocked, I’ve sent letters to his house only to be thrown away, I don’t have a phone number I don’t have nothing.

And yes we’re both born again believers.

If you can please pray for us I’d appreciate it because I’m at a loss for words and I stopped messaging and calling for the first time since August.

God bless you please pray for the both of us because we went crazy after the loss of our baby.

I feel like I can’t go on anymore and I’ve been fighting my best not to relapse, and get my life together after the loss of my son and my husband divorcing me.

If anyone has prayer walls please add my name to it, I know we’re not allowed to share names but mine starts with K and his starts with T. ###+###’s marriage.. please pray for us that God would move on my behalf because I’m giving up, I feel forced and cornered to give up on my marriage after being blocked again on everything.

there is bible verses on marriage & marriage prayers you can look up also prah for eachother. try talking to a priest & pray to Jesus as well

 

[Rayyrr]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”