I had an experience recently where someone contacted me online saying they were a Christian dealing with health problems who is seeking Christian friends. But some concerning things happened and, due to God reminding me that my interactions with this person were infringing on boundaries He has led me to hold in my life in certain situations so as to avoid sin or causing anyone to stumble, I limited contact with this person and eventually, due to their response to my limiting contact, cut off contact with them completely. The entire experience left me very disturbed. Please pray I will recover. Thank you.
Disturbed
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We hear the distress in your heart, and we want to first affirm the wisdom and discernment the Lord gave you in this situation. The Holy Spirit is our guide, and when He convicts us of boundaries that protect us from sin or stumbling, we must obey—even when it feels difficult or unsettling. Scripture tells us, *"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it"* (Proverbs 4:23 WEB). You honored the Lord by listening to His leading, and that is never in vain.
This experience has left you shaken, and we understand why. When someone presents themselves as a fellow believer, there is an expectation of godly conduct and mutual edification. Yet, the enemy often disguises himself as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14), and we must remain vigilant. The fact that this person’s response to your boundaries was troubling is a red flag that their intentions may not have been pure. We rebuke any deception or manipulation that was at work in this situation, and we pray that the Lord would expose any hidden motives if this person is not who they claimed to be.
We also want to gently remind you that not every person who claims to be a Christian is walking in truth. Jesus warned us, *"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves"* (Matthew 7:15 WEB). Your discernment was a gift from God, and it protected you from potential harm. Do not second-guess the Holy Spirit’s leading now. Instead, let this experience strengthen your trust in Him.
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister/brother who has been deeply unsettled by this experience. Lord, we thank You for the discernment You gave them to recognize when boundaries needed to be set. We ask that You would heal any lingering distress in their heart and mind. Replace their unease with Your perfect peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Remind them that You are their strong tower, their refuge in times of trouble (Psalm 9:9). Father, we rebuke any spirit of fear or confusion that may be lingering from this encounter. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we pray that You would surround them with Your angels for protection.
Lord, we also ask that You would continue to sharpen their discernment. Give them wisdom in all their interactions, both online and in person, so that they may always walk in a manner worthy of the calling they have received (Ephesians 4:1). If there are any lessons You want them to learn from this experience, reveal them clearly, and help them to grow in faith and trust in You. We pray that You would fill them with Your joy and reassurance, knowing that You are their Good Shepherd, and no one can snatch them out of Your hand (John 10:28).
Finally, Father, we ask that You would bring godly, Christ-centered friendships into their life—believers who will encourage them in their walk with You and hold them accountable in love. Surround them with a community that reflects Your heart and Your truth. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to meditate on God’s promises of protection and peace. Psalm 34:18-19 reminds us, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all."* You are not alone in this, and the Lord has not abandoned you. Lean into His Word, spend time in His presence, and allow Him to restore your soul.
If you feel led, consider sharing this experience with a trusted pastor or mature believer in your local church. Sometimes, talking it through with someone who can offer biblical counsel can bring further clarity and healing. The body of Christ is meant to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and you do not have to process this alone.
Lastly, we want to remind you that your identity is secure in Christ. The enemy may try to use experiences like this to plant seeds of doubt or insecurity, but you are a child of God, dearly loved and chosen by Him (1 Peter 2:9). Walk in that truth, and let it anchor you in the midst of any lingering disturbance. The Lord is your defender, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
This experience has left you shaken, and we understand why. When someone presents themselves as a fellow believer, there is an expectation of godly conduct and mutual edification. Yet, the enemy often disguises himself as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14), and we must remain vigilant. The fact that this person’s response to your boundaries was troubling is a red flag that their intentions may not have been pure. We rebuke any deception or manipulation that was at work in this situation, and we pray that the Lord would expose any hidden motives if this person is not who they claimed to be.
We also want to gently remind you that not every person who claims to be a Christian is walking in truth. Jesus warned us, *"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves"* (Matthew 7:15 WEB). Your discernment was a gift from God, and it protected you from potential harm. Do not second-guess the Holy Spirit’s leading now. Instead, let this experience strengthen your trust in Him.
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister/brother who has been deeply unsettled by this experience. Lord, we thank You for the discernment You gave them to recognize when boundaries needed to be set. We ask that You would heal any lingering distress in their heart and mind. Replace their unease with Your perfect peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Remind them that You are their strong tower, their refuge in times of trouble (Psalm 9:9). Father, we rebuke any spirit of fear or confusion that may be lingering from this encounter. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we pray that You would surround them with Your angels for protection.
Lord, we also ask that You would continue to sharpen their discernment. Give them wisdom in all their interactions, both online and in person, so that they may always walk in a manner worthy of the calling they have received (Ephesians 4:1). If there are any lessons You want them to learn from this experience, reveal them clearly, and help them to grow in faith and trust in You. We pray that You would fill them with Your joy and reassurance, knowing that You are their Good Shepherd, and no one can snatch them out of Your hand (John 10:28).
Finally, Father, we ask that You would bring godly, Christ-centered friendships into their life—believers who will encourage them in their walk with You and hold them accountable in love. Surround them with a community that reflects Your heart and Your truth. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to meditate on God’s promises of protection and peace. Psalm 34:18-19 reminds us, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all."* You are not alone in this, and the Lord has not abandoned you. Lean into His Word, spend time in His presence, and allow Him to restore your soul.
If you feel led, consider sharing this experience with a trusted pastor or mature believer in your local church. Sometimes, talking it through with someone who can offer biblical counsel can bring further clarity and healing. The body of Christ is meant to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and you do not have to process this alone.
Lastly, we want to remind you that your identity is secure in Christ. The enemy may try to use experiences like this to plant seeds of doubt or insecurity, but you are a child of God, dearly loved and chosen by Him (1 Peter 2:9). Walk in that truth, and let it anchor you in the midst of any lingering disturbance. The Lord is your defender, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
We're here for you, friend. We understand that this situation has left you feeling disturbed and unsettled, and we want you to know that it's okay to feel that way. It's natural to be shaken when someone we trust turns out to be less than genuine. But remember, God is always with you, guiding you and protecting you. He led you to set those boundaries, and that's a testament to your spiritual maturity and discernment.
Let's not dwell on the disturbance, but rather, let's focus on the peace and comfort that Jesus offers. He said, "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid" (John 14:27). Trust in His peace, even when your feelings tell you otherwise.
Let's also pray for wisdom and discernment in your future interactions. May God grant you the ability to recognize genuine fellowship and protect you from those who might try to take advantage of your kindness and trust.
Let's not dwell on the disturbance, but rather, let's focus on the peace and comfort that Jesus offers. He said, "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid" (John 14:27). Trust in His peace, even when your feelings tell you otherwise.
Let's also pray for wisdom and discernment in your future interactions. May God grant you the ability to recognize genuine fellowship and protect you from those who might try to take advantage of your kindness and trust.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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