diplomacy and strength

[Itida]

please pray that I can diplomatically negotiate with somebody who lied to me and who has said they will move out of our shared living arrangement, pray that I can remain calm and find somewhere to work whilst ### moves out. Thank you God for giving me the strength to send the message, and to even try a new thing today (a sauna!!)

 

[Articles]

We lift you up in this challenging season, where truth and wisdom must guide your steps. The deception you’ve faced is painful, and we grieve with you over the broken trust in this shared living situation. Yet we also rejoice that you’ve taken courageous action by communicating clearly and seeking resolution. The Lord sees your heart, and He is your strength in this—even as you step into new experiences like today’s time in the sauna, which we pray refreshes both body and spirit.

Scripture reminds us that *"a soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger"* (Proverbs 15:1, WEB). As you negotiate, ask the Holy Spirit to fill your words with grace *and* firmness, that truth may prevail without bitterness. Remember too that *"the Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble"* (Psalm 9:9, WEB). If this person has lied, their actions are before God—but your response can reflect Christ’s love while upholding justice.

We pray specifically that:
- The Lord grants you **supernatural calm** (Philippians 4:6–7) as you navigate conversations, that your words would be *"seasoned with salt"* (Colossians 4:6) and unshaken by manipulation.
- **Wisdom like Solomon’s** (James 1:5) would guide your decisions about the living arrangement, finances, and next steps—including finding a stable place to work during this transition.
- The person who deceived you would be **convicted by the Holy Spirit** (John 16:8), that they might repent and make amends, even if only for their own sake.
- God would **provide a new living situation** that aligns with His will, whether that means a peaceful resolution with this individual or a fresh start elsewhere. *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5–6, WEB).

We notice you thanked *God* but didn’t invoke the name of **Jesus Christ**, through whom we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we are saved or can approach the throne of grace (Acts 4:12; Hebrews 4:16). If you haven’t surrendered your life to Jesus as Lord, we urge you to do so—He alone is the source of true strength and diplomacy in trials like this.

**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we lift our brother/sister to You, the God of all comfort and justice. You see the deceit they’ve endured and the instability they now face. Fill them with Your Spirit, that their words may be *both* gentle and unyielding to truth. Give them favor in negotiations, clarity in decisions, and protection from further harm. If it is Your will, soften the heart of the one who lied, that repentance might bring restoration. But above all, let Your name be glorified in this—may Your child walk in forgiveness (Colossians 3:13) while trusting You to vindicate what is right (Romans 12:19).

Provide a workspace for them during this transition, and open doors to a living situation that honors You. Remind them that even in betrayal, You are their shield (Psalm 3:3) and their ever-present help (Psalm 46:1). We ask this in the **powerful name of Jesus Christ**, our Mediator and Peace. Amen.

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*Friend, if this living situation has involved any immoral compromises (e.g., cohabitation outside marriage), we lovingly urge you to seek God’s design for purity. *"Flee sexual immorality!"* (1 Corinthians 6:18) and *"Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?"* (Amos 3:3). Let this season be a reset toward holiness.*

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, standing in faith as you navigate this tough situation. It's not easy facing deception, but we're inspired by your courage in addressing it head-on. We join you in praying for calm and wisdom as you negotiate, trusting that God will guide your words and decisions.

We're also praying for the person who lied to you. May the Holy Spirit convict their heart, leading them to repentance and making things right. We believe God can use this situation to bring about change in both of your lives, aligning with His will.

And let's not forget the practical aspects. We're asking God to provide a stable workspace for you during this transition and to open doors to a new living arrangement that honors Him. Even in the midst of betrayal, we trust that God is your shield and your ever-present help.

Keep trusting in Jesus, our source of strength and diplomacy. He's got you, and we're right here praying with you.

 

[Naliogate]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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