Devastated

[Anonymous]

I just ended a 25-year relationship and I am devastated. My significant other has been cheating for years and this last time I had to put him out. I'm struggling so badly with this. He always made me feel inadequate & I have never been enough for him. He’s ### & chose a girl his daughters age of ###-###. I’m heartbroken & devastated. I’m trying to pick up the pieces but I’m spiraling out of control. I have been emotionally abused by someone that I truly loved that clearly didn’t love me back. It’s heartbreaking to know that he doesn’t even care if I live or die. I’ve asked God in Jesus’ name to ease the pain but nothing comes but complete silence. What am I supposed to do? How am I supposed to move on? It seems like all the bad things happen to me.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and heartache you are experiencing after the end of a long-term relationship. It's important to remember that God sees your suffering and cares deeply for you. In times like these, it's crucial to turn to Him for comfort and guidance.

Firstly, we want to address the emotional abuse and infidelity you've endured. It's clear that this relationship was not aligned with biblical principles of love, respect, and faithfulness. The Bible tells us that "love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB)

It is heartbreaking to know and understand what you have gone through, but understand that it is not God's will for you to be treated in such a manner. God wants you to be in a relationship where you are loved, cherished, and treated with kindness and respect.

Regarding your feeling of inadequacy, remember that God sees you as precious and valued. "For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well." (Psalm 139:13-14 WEB) You are enough in God's eyes, and His love for you is unfailing.

If you have not already, make sure to believe in Jesus Christ. Confess your sins and believe in his death on the cross for your sins and resurrection from the dead for your eternal life. It is only through Jesus that one can be saved. God has mighty works planned for your life, and by submitting to His will and allowing Him to be the Lord of your life, you can experience the fullness of life that He intends for you. To not allow Jesus to be the Lord of your life, is to miss out on the eternal rewards and God's will for your life while you are here on earth.

It's also important to remember that although you prayed for the pain to subside you may not always receive an answer immediately. Remember that God's silence does not mean He is not working. He is always working things out for the good of those who love him "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28 WEB) Do not allow the enemy to convince you that God has abandoned you. Keep praying and trusting in Him, and remember His promises.

As for moving on, take heart in the knowledge that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Trust in Him to guide your steps and bring you to a place of healing and restoration. Pray for God to prepare you for the spouse He has for you according to His will. Seek godly counsel and surround yourself with a supportive community of believers who can encourage you and help you grow in your faith.

Let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our sister in her time of need. Lord, we ask that You comfort her heart and heal her from the pain and heartache she is experiencing. Help her to know that she is precious and valued in Your sight, and that Your love for her is unfailing. Give her the strength to move forward, trusting in Your plan and purpose for her life. Guide her steps and bring her to a place of healing and restoration. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Please know this is only the start of your healing. It is going to be a process and God will be with you every step of the way. Keep praying. Keep trusting. Keep moving forward, knowing that God has a bright future in store for you.

 

[hostadmin]

We're so sorry to hear about the pain you're going through. It's like a part of you has been ripped away, and it's natural to feel devastated. We're here for you, just as we're sure God is too. He sees your pain, and He's right there with you.

We want to remind you that you're not alone in this. We've all been through heartache, and it's okay to feel the way you do. But remember, God is using this to shape you, to make you stronger and more resilient. He has a purpose in it all, even if we can't see it yet.

We know it's hard to find hope right now, but hold onto this: God loves you more than you can imagine. He sees your worth, your value, and He's not done with you yet. You're His masterpiece, fearfully and wonderfully made.

Take your time to heal, to grieve. It's okay to not be okay right now. But remember, God is with you in every moment. Trust in Him, even when it's hard. Even when it feels like He's silent, He's still working things out for your good.

And when you're ready, take small steps forward. Surround yourself with people who love and support you. Let them help you carry this burden. And remember, God has a plan for your future. He has someone special in mind for you, someone who will love and cherish you as you deserve to be loved.

We're praying for you, ###. That God will comfort your heart, heal your pain, and fill you with hope and strength for the journey ahead. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Anonymous]

It’s very difficult to believe that God sees my suffering when he is doing nothing to ease the pain. It’s also difficult to believe that God loves me when I have asked numerous times to help me with the hideous body that he has given me. I feel like my sole purpose in life is to suffer. I don’t like looking in mirrors because I hate what I see. There is nothing about my body that I like when I do look in mirrors. I’m so insecure that I wouldn’t get undressed in front of anybody even if my life depended on it. I hate everything about myself. I feel so miserable and unhappy and I feel like God has turned his back on me & is allowing me to suffer so much because I didn’t let go of the relationship I was in sooner so he’s punishing me for that. Fear of being alone & fear of no one ever loving me is what made me stay for so long. Although I put him out, it’s still the heartbreak of knowing he chose to cheat instead of being honest with me. I’m devastated & can’t see any light at the end of the tunnel.

 

[Anonymous]

We're so sorry to hear about the pain you're going through. It's like a part of you has been ripped away, and it's natural to feel devastated. We're here for you, just as we're sure God is too. He sees your pain, and He's right there with you.

We want to remind you that you're not alone in this. We've all been through heartache, and it's okay to feel the way you do. But remember, God is using this to shape you, to make you stronger and more resilient. He has a purpose in it all, even if we can't see it yet.

We know it's hard to find hope right now, but hold onto this: God loves you more than you can imagine. He sees your worth, your value, and He's not done with you yet. You're His masterpiece, fearfully and wonderfully made.

Take your time to heal, to grieve. It's okay to not be okay right now. But remember, God is with you in every moment. Trust in Him, even when it's hard. Even when it feels like He's silent, He's still working things out for your good.

And when you're ready, take small steps forward. Surround yourself with people who love and support you. Let them help you carry this burden. And remember, God has a plan for your future. He has someone special in mind for you, someone who will love and cherish you as you deserve to be loved.

We're praying for you, ###. That God will comfort your heart, heal your pain, and fill you with hope and strength for the journey ahead. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

I’ve prayed for over 20yrs and God has shown me nothing but silence so it’s very difficult to believe that there is a purpose in this. The only purpose I see is making me suffer because that’s the purpose of my life.

 

[Crachithor]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[ellie12]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Anonymous]

It’s very difficult to believe that God sees my suffering when he is doing nothing to ease the pain. It’s also difficult to believe that God loves me when I have asked numerous times to help me with the hideous body that he has given me. I feel like my sole purpose in life is to suffer. I don’t like looking in mirrors because I hate what I see. There is nothing about my body that I like when I do look in mirrors. I’m so insecure that I wouldn’t get undressed in front of anybody even if my life depended on it. I hate everything about myself. I feel so miserable and unhappy and I feel like God has turned his back on me & is allowing me to suffer so much because I didn’t let go of the relationship I was in sooner so he’s punishing me for that. Fear of being alone & fear of no one ever loving me is what made me stay for so long. Although I put him out, it’s still the heartbreak of knowing he chose to cheat instead of being honest with me. I’m devastated & can’t see any light at the end of the tunnel.

I often feel like due to the immense amount of
Pain that I have suffered over the years that God hates me. I’ve prayed consistently in Jesus’s name and always silent & has always been when I prayed for this relationship or when I’ve prayed for my self-esteem. There is nothing that I like when I look in the mirror. I hate everything that I see. My heart hurts so badly and no matter how much I pray for the pain to stop it doesn’t.

 

[Cuyreinance]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.