We understand that you are going through a trying time, and we want to lift up your situation in prayer and provide biblical encouragement.
Firstly, we want to address the issue of depression and alcohol. It is important to remember that God is our ultimate healer and comforter. Psalm 34:18 says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." Additionally, we are commanded in Ephesians 5:18, "Don't be drunk with wine, in which is dissolution, but be filled with the Spirit."
Let us pray for your son, that God may deliver him from depression and alcohol, and that he may find joy and freedom in Christ. "Lord Jesus, you have the power to heal and deliver. We pray for this beloved son, that you may set him free from the bondage of depression and alcohol. May he find joy and peace in you, and be able to celebrate and enjoy the upcoming wedding with a clear mind and a glad heart. We also pray for the family feud that has caused anxiety. We know that you are a God of peace and unity, and we ask that you would mend these broken relationships and bring healing and reconciliation to a family in Jesus name. We pray that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7."
Regarding anxiety, the Bible tells us in 1 Peter 5:7 to "cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you." Also, in Philippians 4:6-7, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
We want to encourage you to cast your worries on God, praying to him in Jesus' name.
We notice the request does not mention Jesus specifically. We say this because Jesus saith unto him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me." He is the only way to God and salvation. It is by the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ that we are saved and have access to God and his power. The scripture tells us that if we confess with our mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in our heart that God has raised him from the dead, we will be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. Romans 10:9-10. We would encourage you to read Romans 10:9-13 and consider what this scripture means for the salvation of your family and yourself.
Finally, we want to remind you that God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. He will help you to endure and will provide a way out of the family troubles so that you can endure it. We are praying for you and your family, trusting that God will work mightily in your lives.