We understand the deep spiritual and emotional burden you are carrying, and we want you to know that you are not alone in this battle. The behaviors you are describing—supernatural knowledge of your thoughts, persistent disruption of your sleep, relentless talking to distract you, and the manipulation of your father—are not merely coincidental or natural. They align with the patterns of demonic influence, especially given the generational involvement in occult practices, witchcraft, Freemasonry, and false teachings within your family. The enemy has had a stronghold in your family line, and it is clear that your mother is being used as a vessel for spiritual oppression. This is not a matter to take lightly, but it is also not a matter to fear, for we serve a God who is greater than any power of darkness.
The Scripture is clear that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12). Your mother is not your enemy—she is a victim of the enemy’s deception and bondage. However, this does not mean you should tolerate or submit to the spiritual oppression she is bringing into your life. You must take a stand in the authority of Jesus Christ, who has already triumphed over every power and principality (Colossians 2:15). You have the right, as a believer, to resist the devil and command these influences to flee in Jesus’ name (James 4:7).
The fact that your mother usurps your father’s authority is another sign of the inversion of God’s order. Scripture teaches that the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church (Ephesians 5:23). When a woman dominates or controls her husband, it is a perversion of God’s design and opens the door to further spiritual chaos. This is not about suppressing women but about aligning with God’s created order, which brings protection, peace, and blessing. The enemy seeks to distort and destroy this order, and it is evident in the way your mother manipulates your father’s decisions, especially regarding church attendance. Her negative words are not just her own—they are inspired by the spirit of division and rebellion that seeks to keep your family from the truth and the body of Christ.
It is also troubling that your mother presents herself as a victim—even claiming that your father’s reluctance to attend church is an attack from Satan—when she is the very one causing the problem. This is a classic tactic of the enemy: to accuse others while remaining the instigator of confusion and strife. Do not be deceived by her outward appearance or the way others at church may perceive her. The Lord sees the heart, and He knows the truth (1 Samuel 16:7). You must continue to stand firm in the truth, even if it feels isolating.
Now, let us address the practical and spiritual steps you must take. First, you must put on the full armor of God daily (Ephesians 6:10-18). This is not optional—it is essential for your protection and victory. Pray in the Spirit at all times, and be watchful. Second, you must break the generational curses and strongholds in your family line. This is done through repentance—both for your own sins and, as a representative of your family, for the sins of your ancestors. You can pray something like this:
*"Heavenly Father, I come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, my Lord and Savior. I confess that my family line has been involved in occult practices, witchcraft, Freemasonry, and false teachings. These things are an abomination to You, and I repent on behalf of my ancestors and myself for any participation in or agreement with these sins. I renounce every generational curse, every demonic stronghold, and every ungodly soul tie that has been passed down through my bloodline. By the blood of Jesus, I break these curses and command every demonic influence to be loosened and removed from my family, in Jesus’ name. I declare that my mother, my father, and I are free from the enemy’s grip, and I ask You to fill us with Your Holy Spirit. I plead the blood of Jesus over my home, my mind, my sleep, and my family. No weapon formed against me shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against me in judgment, I condemn in Jesus’ name (Isaiah 54:17). Father, I ask You to bind every spirit of divination, witchcraft, confusion, rebellion, and control that is operating through my mother. I command these spirits to be silent and to leave her in Jesus’ name. I pray for her salvation and deliverance, that she would turn from these sins and surrender her life to You. Restore her mind, Lord, and break the power of the enemy over her. I also pray for my father, that You would strengthen him to take his rightful place as the spiritual leader of our home. Give him discernment and courage to resist my mother’s manipulation and to lead our family in Your truth. Finally, Lord, I ask for Your protection over my sleep. I rebuke every spirit of insomnia and disturbance, and I command peace to reign in my home. Cover me with Your feathers, Lord, and let me dwell in the secret place of the Most High (Psalm 91:1-4). I thank You for Your victory and Your deliverance. In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen."*
Next, you must set boundaries. While you are to honor your mother (Exodus 20:12), you are not required to submit to demonic oppression. If she disrupts your sleep, kindly but firmly tell her that you need to rest and that she must respect that. If she begins to speak endlessly while you are trying to concentrate, politely but firmly ask her to stop, and if she continues, remove yourself from the situation. Do not engage in arguments or try to reason with the spirits influencing her—this will only drain you. Instead, speak the truth in love and enforce boundaries with the authority of Christ.
You must also continue to stand firm in your faith, even if your mother’s behavior makes it difficult. Do not allow her negativity to deter you from attending church or pursuing godly fellowship. If your father is weak in his faith, pray for him diligently and encourage him with Scripture. Remind him of his role as the leader of your home and urge him to take responsibility for the spiritual well-being of your family. If he is unwilling, continue to pray that the Lord would open his eyes and strengthen his heart.
Finally, we want to encourage you to seek support from your church leadership. Share what you are experiencing with your pastor or a trusted elder. Ask them to pray with you and to provide guidance. You should not have to face this alone, and your church family can be a powerful source of intercession and wisdom. If your mother’s behavior escalates or becomes dangerous, do not hesitate to seek further help, whether spiritual or practical.
We are standing with you in prayer, believing for your mother’s deliverance, your father’s strength, and your protection. The Lord is faithful, and He will not allow the enemy to triumph over His children. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and do not grow weary in doing what is right. The battle is the Lord’s, and He has already won the victory.
*"The Lord is my light and my salvation. Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life. Of whom shall I be afraid? When evildoers came at me to eat up my flesh, even my adversaries and my foes, they stumbled and fell. Though an army should encamp against me, my heart shall not fear. Though war should rise against me, even then I will be confident."* (Psalm 27:1-3, WEB)
*"Don’t be afraid of them, for neither can the father profit them. ‘Don’t fear him who kills the body, but is not able to kill the soul. Rather, fear him who is able to destroy both soul and body in Gehenna.’"* (Matthew 10:28, WEB)
*"Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* (James 4:7, WEB)
*"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB)
We are praying for you, that the Lord would surround you with His angels, fill you with His peace, and grant you wisdom and discernment in every situation. May He break every chain of darkness in your family and bring forth His light and truth. Stay strong in the Lord, and do not lose heart. He is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. In Jesus’ name, we declare freedom, victory, and restoration over your life and your family. Amen.