We join you in lifting up this request, and we praise God that you have come before Him in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through His name that we have access to the Father and can find true deliverance. As you have rightly stood on Scripture, we too will stand with you in prayer, but we must first address a few things to ensure this request is fully aligned with God’s Word and His heart for reconciliation, forgiveness, and holiness.
First, we commend you for invoking the name of Jesus, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is through Him alone that we approach the throne of grace. *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Your faith in calling upon Jesus is foundational, and we encourage you to continue seeking Him in all things.
Now, regarding the grudges held against you and your family, we understand the pain and injustice you may have endured. Jesus teaches us in Mark 11:25, *"Whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone; so that your Father, who is in heaven, may also forgive you your transgressions."* While you have asked the Lord to rebuke this family for their grudges, we must also remind you that forgiveness is not optional for the believer—it is a command. Holding onto bitterness or asking for rebukes without a heart of forgiveness can hinder your own walk with God. Jesus said, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB). We must release these offenses to God and trust Him to vindicate and heal. Let us pray for their hearts to be softened, for God to break the spirit of offense, and for reconciliation where it is possible. *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil.’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you."* (Proverbs 20:22, WEB).
As for the matter of seduction while you were married, we grieve with you over the brokenness of that situation. Adultery and fornication are grave sins that God hates, as they defile the covenant of marriage, which is a reflection of Christ’s relationship with His Church. Zechariah 3:2 does indeed show the Lord rebuking Satan, and we know that God is just and will deal with all sin. However, we must also examine our own hearts in these matters. If there was any participation or willingness on your part, it is important to repent and seek God’s cleansing. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* (1 John 1:9, WEB). This is not to condemn you, but to ensure that you are fully free from any lingering sin or guilt. God’s desire is to restore and redeem, and He can turn even the most painful experiences into testimonies of His grace.
We also want to encourage you to reflect on your current standing in regards to marriage. You mentioned being "legally married to another man 10 years ago," which implies that you are no longer in that marriage. If you are now divorced, we urge you to seek God’s will for your life moving forward. Divorce is not God’s design, but He is a God of redemption. If you are single now, we pray that God would prepare you for a future marriage that honors Him, should that be His will. If you are in a relationship now, we strongly encourage you to pursue it with the intention of godly marriage, ensuring that it is with a believer who shares your faith and commitment to Christ. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
Lastly, we want to remind you that deliverance is not just about rebuking others or even the enemy—it is about surrendering fully to God and allowing Him to cleanse and renew your heart. *"Don’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."* (Romans 12:2, WEB). Let us focus on our own holiness and trust God to handle the rest.
Now, let us pray together over these matters:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You that You are a God of justice, mercy, and righteousness. Lord, we lift up our sister to You, asking that You would surround her with Your peace and protection. Father, we ask that You would break any spirit of offense, bitterness, or unforgiveness in her heart. Help her to release these burdens to You, trusting that You will vindicate her in Your perfect timing. *"Dearly beloved, don’t seek revenge yourselves, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’"* (Romans 12:19, WEB).
Lord, we pray for the family that has held grudges against her. Soften their hearts, Father, and break the chains of bitterness and division. Let Your love and truth penetrate their souls, and if it is Your will, bring reconciliation and healing. We rebuke any spirit of strife or division in the name of Jesus, and we ask that You would fill all involved with Your peace that surpasses understanding.
Father, we also lift up the situation involving seduction and the broken covenant of marriage. Lord, we ask for Your healing and restoration. If there was any sin on her part, we pray that she would fully repent and receive Your cleansing. Wash her clean, Lord, and restore her heart. We rebuke any lingering effects of that sin—shame, guilt, or bondage—and we declare freedom in the name of Jesus. *"If the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed."* (John 8:36, WEB).
Lord, we pray for her future, that You would guide her steps and prepare her for a godly marriage if that is Your will. Surround her with godly counsel and community, and protect her from any relationships that do not honor You. Give her wisdom and discernment, and let her heart be fully surrendered to You.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would fill her with Your Holy Spirit, renewing her mind and strengthening her faith. Let her walk in victory, knowing that You are her defender, her healer, and her redeemer. We declare that no weapon formed against her will prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, she will condemn. This is her heritage as a servant of the Lord (Isaiah 54:17).
We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your goodness and Your faithfulness. May Your will be done in her life, and may You receive all the glory. In the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, we pray. Amen.
