We join you in lifting up this heartfelt cry for deliverance, and we stand in agreement with you, declaring that our God is mighty to save, to heal, and to restore. Your prayer is rooted in Scripture, and we commend you for standing firm on the Word of God, for it is our sword and our shield in spiritual battles. Let us first affirm what is right in your prayer—you have boldly approached the throne of grace, invoking the name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved and through whom we have access to the Father. This is as it should be, for Jesus Himself said, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive"* (Matthew 21:22, WEB). You have also covered yourself with the blood of Jesus, which is our ultimate protection against the schemes of the enemy.
Yet we must also address a matter that requires careful consideration. In your prayer, you have invoked vengeance upon this individual and their family, standing on Romans 12:19, which says, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"*(WEB). While it is true that vengeance belongs to the Lord, we must examine our hearts to ensure that our prayers are not driven by bitterness, anger, or a desire for personal retribution. The same chapter of Romans also commands us: *"Bless those who persecute you; bless, and don’t curse"* (Romans 12:14, WEB). And just a few verses later, we are told, *"Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good"* (Romans 12:21, WEB).
It is right to ask God to intervene in injustice, to break demonic strongholds, and to bring conviction and repentance to those who harass or oppress. But our ultimate goal should be their redemption, not their destruction. Remember how Jesus prayed for those who crucified Him: *"Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing"* (Luke 23:34, WEB). Similarly, the Apostle Paul instructs us to *"pray for all men: for kings and all who are in high places; that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and reverence. For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all people to be saved and come to full knowledge of the truth"* (1 Timothy 2:1-4, WEB).
Let us also consider the weight of asking God to "take vengeance" upon someone. While God is just and will indeed repay, we must ensure that our prayers align with His heart of mercy. The prophet Jonah learned this lesson when he desired judgment upon Nineveh, only for God to show them compassion (Jonah 4). Our prayers should reflect a heart that desires repentance and restoration, even for those who have wronged us. This does not mean we excuse or tolerate abuse or injustice, but it does mean we entrust the outcome to God’s perfect justice and wisdom.
Additionally, you have mentioned "demonic strongholds" working through this individual. This is a serious matter, and we must approach it with both discernment and humility. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us that *"our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* While it is appropriate to pray against demonic influence, we must also remember that people are not the enemy—they are often ensnared by the enemy. Our battle is spiritual, and our weapons are prayer, the Word of God, and love.
Now, let us pray together over this situation, asking God to move mightily while also guarding our hearts against bitterness:
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Heavenly Father, we come before You in the precious name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is crying out for deliverance and justice. Lord, You see the pain, the disrespect, and the harassment she has endured. You are a God who hears the cries of the oppressed, and You are faithful to act on behalf of Your children. We ask that You intervene in this situation, Lord. Break every demonic stronghold that has taken root in this family. Expose the works of darkness and render them powerless by the blood of Jesus. Let every scheme of the enemy be thwarted, and let Your light shine into every hidden place.
Father, we pray for this individual and their family. Soften their hearts, Lord. If there is bitterness, anger, or generational sin at work, we ask that You bring conviction and repentance. Lord, You desire that none should perish but that all should come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). We pray that they would encounter Your love in a way that transforms them. If professional help is needed, Lord, provide the right people to minister to them, that they may find healing and freedom in You.
We also pray for our sister. Restore what has been stolen from her—her peace, her joy, her sense of worth in You. Heal the wounds inflicted by disrespect and harassment. Clothe her with Your righteousness, and let her stand firm in the knowledge that she is Your beloved daughter. Strengthen her, Lord, and fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may respond with grace and wisdom in every situation.
Lord, we ask that You move the mountains in her life—those obstacles that seem immovable. By faith, we declare that nothing is impossible for You (Luke 1:37). We trust You to bring justice where it is needed, but we also trust You to work all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). Guard her heart against bitterness, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
Finally, Father, we cover her in the blood of Jesus. Protect her from every attack of the enemy. Let no weapon formed against her prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Surround her with Your angels, and let Your presence be her refuge and strength.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your timing and Your ways, knowing that You are good and Your love endures forever. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
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Sister, we encourage you to continue standing on the Word of God, but also to guard your heart against unforgiveness. Forgiveness does not mean what was done to you was right; it means you release the offense to God and trust Him to handle it. Unforgiveness can become a stronghold in *our* lives if we are not careful. Jesus said, *"But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses"* (Matthew 6:15, WEB). This is not to condemn you, but to remind you that freedom comes when we surrender our pain to Him.
We also encourage you to seek wise counsel, whether from a pastor or a mature believer who can walk with you through this season. You do not have to carry this burden alone. And if there is ongoing abuse or harassment, take practical steps to protect yourself while trusting God to fight for you.
Lastly, we leave you with this promise: *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). He sees you, He hears you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. Keep pressing into Him, and He will bring you through this victorious.