Deliverance needed urgently

Anonymous

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I was raised not to express my true feelings but rather stuff them down. I’ve become a people pleaser and now I am asking the Lord Jesus to deliver me from that trait. People have taken advantage of my willingness to help.
 
We join you in lifting this burden to our Heavenly Father, for He alone can break the chains of people-pleasing and emotional suppression that have bound you for so long. The enemy has used these patterns to keep you in bondage, but the Lord Jesus has already won the victory over every stronghold in your life. You are not called to live in fear of man’s approval or to shrink back from expressing godly truth in love. Instead, Scripture tells us in Galatians 1:10, *"For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? For if I were still pleasing men, I wouldn’t be a servant of Christ."* Your desire to please the Lord above all else is the first step toward true freedom.

The Lord sees how others have taken advantage of your kindness, and He is grieved by their exploitation. But He is also calling you to set healthy boundaries—not out of selfishness, but out of stewardship over the gifts and time He has entrusted to you. Proverbs 25:26 warns, *"Like a muddied spring and a polluted well, so is a righteous man who gives way before the wicked."* Your willingness to help is a beautiful reflection of Christ’s heart, but it must be guided by wisdom and discernment. Jesus Himself withdrew from crowds to pray (Luke 5:16) and spoke hard truths when necessary (Matthew 23). You, too, can walk in that balance—serving others while guarding your heart.

The root of people-pleasing often lies in fear—fear of rejection, conflict, or abandonment. But 2 Timothy 1:7 declares, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* The Holy Spirit is ready to replace that fear with His perfect love, which casts out all torment (1 John 4:18). You do not need to earn love or approval; you are already deeply loved by the Father (Ephesians 2:4-5). Let that truth sink into the deepest parts of your soul.

As for the emotional suppression, the Lord invites you to bring every hidden pain, every stifled cry, to Him. Psalm 62:8 says, *"Trust in him at all times, you people. Pour out your heart before him. God is a refuge for us."* He is not intimidated by your raw emotions—He created them! Even Jesus wept (John 11:35) and expressed His anguish in the Garden of Gethsemane (Matthew 26:38). You are not sinning by feeling; you sin only when you allow those feelings to lead you into bitterness, idolatry, or unbelief. Ask the Holy Spirit to teach you how to process emotions in a way that honors God.

Now, let us pray for you:

*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up Your beloved child who has carried the weight of people-pleasing and emotional bondage for far too long. Lord, You see the wounds inflicted by a childhood that taught suppression instead of godly expression. You see the exhaustion from being used and the fear of man that has ruled their heart. But today, we declare that the Spirit of the Lord is upon them to proclaim freedom to the captives and release from darkness (Isaiah 61:1).

Father, we ask You to break every chain of fear, approval-seeking, and emotional imprisonment. Uproot the lies that say, ‘You must earn love’ or ‘Your needs don’t matter.’ Replace them with the truth of Your Word: that they are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), that their worth is found in Christ alone (Colossians 2:10), and that You have equipped them with everything they need to walk in godly confidence (2 Peter 1:3).

Lord Jesus, we rebuke the spirit of people-pleasing and the manipulation of others who have taken advantage of their kindness. Holy Spirit, rise up within them as a mighty warrior, teaching them to set boundaries that honor You. Give them the courage to say ‘no’ when necessary and the wisdom to discern when to serve. Let them walk in the freedom of Galatians 5:1: ‘Stand firm therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free, and don’t be entangled again with a yoke of bondage.’

Father, we pray for divine healing over their emotions. Where there has been suppression, bring holy expression. Where there has been pain, bring Your comfort. Where there has been fear, flood their heart with Your perfect love. Teach them to cast all their cares upon You, for You care for them (1 Peter 5:7). Let them experience the joy of Psalm 34:17-18: ‘The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.’

We declare that they will no longer be a doormat for the enemy or for selfish people. Instead, they will walk as Your ambassador—loving others but never at the expense of their own godly identity. Strengthen them to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and to walk in the authority You’ve given them as Your child.

Finally, Lord, surround them with godly community—people who will sharpen them (Proverbs 27:17) and encourage them in this journey. Let them find rest in You alone, for Your yoke is easy and Your burden is light (Matthew 11:30).

We thank You, Father, for the deliverance that is already unfolding. We trust You to complete the good work You’ve begun in them (Philippians 1:6). In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Deliverer and Redeemer, we pray. Amen."*

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Sister or brother, as you walk this out, we encourage you to meditate on Scripture daily, particularly verses about identity in Christ and the fear of the Lord (which casts out the fear of man). Consider memorizing Proverbs 29:25: *"The fear of man proves to be a snare, but whoever puts his trust in Yahweh is kept safe."* When you feel the pull to please others at your own expense, pause and ask: *"Am I seeking to honor God or man in this moment?"*

If you’ve never surrendered this area fully to the Lord, we urge you to do so now. Repent of any idolatry of approval or fear of man, and ask the Holy Spirit to fill you afresh. He is faithful to lead you into all truth (John 16:13). You are not alone in this—we are standing with you in prayer, believing for your complete deliverance.

Lastly, if you sense that others are repeatedly taking advantage of you, pray for discernment. Some relationships may need to be reevaluated or even released. Not everyone deserves access to your time, energy, or emotions. Ask the Lord to show you how to love wisely, as He does. He is your Shield and your exceeding great Reward (Genesis 15:1). Walk in that confidence today!
 
We're right there with you, sister. We've felt that weight of people-pleasing and emotional suppression too, and we know it's heavy. But remember, Jesus already carried that burden for us on the cross. He's not just our Savior, He's our Deliverer too.

We're claiming Galatians 5:1 over you today - "Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery." You've been set free in Christ, and it's time to walk in that freedom. It's okay to say "no" sometimes, to set boundaries, and to express your true feelings. God didn't create you to be a doormat, but to be a reflection of His love and truth.

We're also claiming Psalm 34:18 over you - "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He sees your pain, and He's right there with you, ready to comfort and heal. Don't be afraid to pour out your heart to Him. He can handle your raw emotions, and He won't break.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, laying down this burden of people-pleasing and emotional suppression. Lord, we ask that You would break every chain that's been holding ### back. Fill them with Your love, Your courage, and Your wisdom. Help them to set healthy boundaries, to speak truth in love, and to walk in the freedom that You've already given them.

Lord, we also ask for healing over their emotions. Where there's been pain, bring Your comfort. Where there's been fear, flood their heart with Your perfect love. Help them to process emotions in a way that honors You.

Father, surround ### with godly community - people who will sharpen them, encourage them, and love them well. Help them to find rest in You alone, knowing that Your yoke is easy and Your burden is light.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 

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