Deliverance from incubus

[Daenneemore]

A while ago I met a man online through an RPG we both played. I was very lonely at that time in my life even though I had been growing closer to Christ. This man was highly involved into pornography and wanted to even make a career for himself with creating 3d models of pornographic “tasteful” scenes to provide money for himself and his family and friends. But his computer had broken the year prior so he hadn’t actually started on that, thank God. I tried to talk to him about Jesus and forgiveness of sins and to drop the pornography, that God has more in store for him, but much to my grief he believed that God Himself was telling him to build a life out of the porn scene. I was lonely and I wanted to love someone so I chose to stick by his side despite these huge problems and eventually we even got “married” spiritually inside that game. Something I now regret deeply. Eventually the temptation of lust got to me and I started masturbating with him through phone conversations sometimes multiple times a day. At the same time I started becoming more and more unhappy and depressed and I noticed my life was falling apart around me. When he went abroad to a wedding of a family member I went to church straight to confession and confessed my sins. I also started going to mass. After that I refused to get involved in temptation of lust, masturbation or even any mention of sex outside the marriage. He tried to convince me that we were married and I was neglecting my duties as his wife. But I held steadfast and said our marriage would only be real in the church. Fast forward a couple weeks. I am growing closer and closer to Jesus. Loving Him with all my being and wanting to become holy. He said he supports me in my choices but while I asked him to stop the pornography and stop tempting me he secretly continued anyway. It all came to a head two weeks ago when I realized that God has much better in store for me and that I should step away from someone who lives unrepentant in sin and who will only lead me astray. It was difficult but I did it. I chose Jesus and even blocked this man on all platforms.



Somewhere in the middle of that relationship with that man I started being assaulted by an incubus at night, but not often. I feel how someone is lying on top of me and in my dream I’m put in situations where there is a lot of sexual temptation or the invitation to do so. The incubus has even taken the form of an ex-lover I had during my earthly days and is using familiar and safe surroundings to try to get me to fall.



It happened maybe one or two times while I was with this man. However ever since I broke it off with this man I’ve been assaulted by an incubus about three times a week. It’s only exhausting at this point as I’m not getting a good nights rest. I prayed deliverance prayer and the rosary also, but I feel it somehow connects back to this man.



I’m desperate to get rid of this incubus. I’m starting to believe that the man I dated was, unbeknownst to himself, possessed or at least tormented by some sex demon himself and that by getting involved with him I opened myself up to it unknowingly.



Please pray for me that I will be delivered from this incubus. It’s not stopping me from growing closer to the Lord but it’s exhausting to deal with this and I’m worried that one day I will be tempted while I don’t want to.

 

[Articles]

We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, yet filled with hope in the power of Jesus Christ to break every chain of darkness and set the captives free. Your testimony is one of repentance and a turning back to God, and we rejoice that you have chosen Christ over sin, even when it was difficult. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus has already won the victory, and we stand firm in that truth as we pray for your complete deliverance.

First, we must address the spiritual dangers you opened yourself to during this relationship. The "spiritual marriage" you entered into within that game was not of God—it was a mockery of the holy covenant of marriage, which is ordained by Him between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). Engaging in sexual sin, even through phone conversations, is fornication, and the Scriptures warn us that those who practice such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Galatians 5:19-21). But praise God, you repented! You turned away from that sin and sought confession and reconciliation with the Lord. That is the heart God honors—a broken and contrite spirit (Psalm 51:17).

Your suspicion that this man may have been influenced or tormented by demonic forces is not unfounded. The Bible tells us that sexual immorality is a sin against our own bodies (1 Corinthians 6:18) and opens doors to spiritual oppression. When we engage in persistent, unrepentant sin, we give the enemy a foothold (Ephesians 4:27). This man’s involvement in pornography—especially his intent to build a career around it—is a clear invitation to demonic influence. Pornography is not just a "harmless" habit; it is a tool of the enemy to distort God’s design for sexuality, enslave minds, and destroy lives. By associating with him in that state, you unknowingly exposed yourself to the same spiritual dangers. But now that you have severed that tie, we declare that every demonic assignment tied to that relationship is broken in Jesus’ name!

The attacks of the incubus are real, but they are not stronger than the power of Christ in you. These assaults are a direct attempt to tempt you back into sin and to wear you down spiritually. The enemy knows you are drawing closer to God, and he is furious. But take heart: "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you" (James 4:7). You have already taken the first step by submitting to God through repentance and resisting the temptation to return to that sinful relationship. Now, we must stand in the authority of Christ and command this demonic spirit to leave.

Let us also address the concern that you mentioned praying the rosary. While we understand your desire to seek deliverance, we must gently but firmly remind you that our prayers are to be directed to God alone through Jesus Christ, our only Mediator (1 Timothy 2:5). There is no biblical basis for praying to Mary or any other saint, as they cannot save, intercede, or deliver us—they, too, needed a Savior. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we urge you to place your full trust in Christ alone for your salvation and deliverance. If you have not confessed Jesus as your Lord and Savior, now is the time. Romans 10:9 says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* There is power in the name of Jesus, and it is by His stripes that we are healed and set free (Isaiah 53:5).

Now, let us pray for your complete deliverance and restoration:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You that You are a God who delivers, who breaks every chain, and who sets the captives free. Lord, we lift up Your daughter before You now. She has repented of her sins, turned away from darkness, and chosen to walk in Your light. Father, we ask that You would forgive her completely for every sin she committed during that ungodly relationship—for the fornication, for the spiritual bonds she formed, and for any door she opened to the enemy. Wash her clean by the blood of Jesus and restore her to full righteousness in You.

Lord, we rebuke and bind every incubus spirit, every spirit of lust, every spirit of fornication, and every demonic assignment that has been sent against her. We declare that these spirits have no authority over her, for she belongs to You. By the power of the Holy Spirit, we command these spirits to leave her now—in the name of Jesus Christ! We break every soul tie, every ungodly covenant, and every spiritual marriage that was formed in that game or through that relationship. We declare those bonds null and void by the blood of Jesus.

Father, we ask that You would surround her with Your heavenly angels (Psalm 91:11) and protect her as she sleeps. Let no demonic force come near her dwelling. We pray that You would fill her mind with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and that You would restore her sleep. Let her rest be sweet and undisturbed, for You, Lord, are her Keeper (Psalm 121:3-4).

We also pray for the man she was involved with. Lord, open his eyes to the truth of his sin and the danger he is in. Convict his heart by Your Holy Spirit and draw him to repentance. Break the power of pornography in his life and set him free from every demonic stronghold. Lord, if it is Your will, bring godly people into his life who will speak Your truth to him and lead him to salvation in Christ.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would fill our sister with Your Holy Spirit afresh. Strengthen her in her walk with You. Give her discernment to recognize the enemy’s schemes and wisdom to flee from temptation. Let her find her satisfaction in You alone, for You are her Husband, her Provider, and her Protector (Isaiah 54:5). May she grow in holiness and be a light to others who are trapped in darkness.

We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. We trust that You have heard our prayers and that You will act on her behalf. We give You all the glory, honor, and praise, in Jesus’ mighty name. Amen.

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Sister, we want to encourage you to continue walking in obedience to the Lord. The attacks you are facing are a sign that the enemy is threatened by your commitment to Christ. Stay steadfast in prayer, in the Word, and in fellowship with other believers. Avoid any form of entertainment or interaction that could reopen doors to the enemy, including games or relationships that glorify sin. Fill your mind with Scripture—memorize verses like 2 Timothy 1:7 (*"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"*) and 1 Corinthians 10:13 (*"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it"*).

If the attacks persist, we recommend fasting and prayer (Matthew 17:21). There is power in fasting when combined with faith. Also, consider finding a spirit-filled, Bible-believing church where you can receive prayer and support from mature believers. You do not have to face this alone—the Body of Christ is here to stand with you.

Lastly, guard your heart and mind. The enemy may try to bring back memories of that relationship or tempt you with lustful thoughts. When this happens, take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5). Reject those thoughts immediately and declare the Word of God over your life. You are a new creation in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17), and the old has passed away.

Stand firm, sister. The Lord is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Your deliverance is near!

 

[hostadmin]

Sister, we're here for you. We've been praying for you and we want you to know that you're not alone in this fight. We believe in the power of Jesus' name and we stand with you in faith that you will be delivered from this incubus.

We understand that you've been struggling with sleep disturbances due to these attacks. We want to remind you of the promise in Psalm 3:5, "I lie down and sleep; I wake again, because the Lord sustains me." Trust in the Lord to protect you as you sleep, and claim this promise over your life.

We also want to encourage you to continue seeking the Lord with all your heart. Spend time in prayer and worship, read His Word, and fellowship with other believers. Remember, the enemy may be trying to wear you down, but God is stronger. He is faithful, and He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear (1 Corinthians 10:13).

We declare that every incubus spirit, every spirit of lust, and every demonic assignment sent against you is bound and has no authority over you. In Jesus' name, we command these spirits to leave you now. We also break every soul tie, every ungodly covenant, and every spiritual marriage that was formed in that game or through that relationship. Those bonds are null and void by the blood of Jesus.

We pray that the Lord will fill your mind with His peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and that you will experience sweet, undisturbed rest. We also pray that the Lord will fill you with His Holy Spirit afresh, strengthening you in your walk with Him and giving you discernment to recognize the enemy's schemes and wisdom to flee from temptation.

Remember, Jesus is with you always, even to the very end of the age (Matthew 28:20). Trust in Him, and stand firm in your faith. Your deliverance is near!

Keep fighting the good fight of faith, sister. We're cheering you on, and we're believing with you for your complete deliverance.

 

[Bhuoport]

Thank you! I prayed with you. God bless you. In Jesus name amen

 

[Yiamen]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Dwoassaurford]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.