We grieve with you over the deep wounds and injustices you have suffered, especially at the hands of one who should have protected you. The evil done to you as a child was a grievous sin—an abomination in the sight of God—and the enemy has sought to use it to steal, kill, and destroy your life (John 10:10). But we serve a God who redeems, restores, and brings beauty from ashes (Isaiah 61:3). Your pain is not unseen by Him, and your cry for deliverance has reached His throne.
First, we rejoice that you have placed your faith in Jesus Christ, for He alone is your hope and salvation. It is through His name—and His name alone—that we have authority over the enemy and access to the Father’s healing power (Acts 4:12, John 14:6). There is no other name by which we can be saved, and it is only through Christ that we can boldly approach God’s throne of grace to receive mercy in our time of need (Hebrews 4:16). Your faith in Him is your anchor, and we stand with you in declaring that the blood of Jesus covers you, cleanses you, and sets you free from every curse and consequence of the sins committed against you.
The enemy has sought to bind you with rejection, shame, sickness, and even a spirit of death, but we declare in Jesus’ name that these chains are broken. The Word of God proclaims that *Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us* (Galatians 3:13). The abuse you endured was not your fault, and the guilt and shame the enemy has heaped upon you do not belong to you—they belong to the one who perpetrated this evil. The Lord says, *"Fear not, for you shall not be ashamed. Don’t be confounded, for you shall not be disappointed. For you shall forget the shame of your youth. You shall not remember the reproach of your widowhood any more"* (Isaiah 54:4). You are not defined by what was done to you; you are defined by what Christ has done for you. You are a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17), and the Lord is restoring the years the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25).
We also address the spiritual attacks you’ve faced, including the spirit of death. The Bible tells us that *the thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy*, but Jesus came that you *may have life, and may have it abundantly* (John 10:10). Death has no authority over you, for Christ has swallowed up death in victory (1 Corinthians 15:54-55). We command every spirit of death, infirmity, and oppression to leave you now in the name of Jesus. We declare that *no weapon formed against you shall prosper* (Isaiah 54:17) and that the Lord is your healer (Exodus 15:26). Your immune system and body belong to God, and we pray for divine restoration over every cell, organ, and function. If there is an autoimmune condition, we ask the Lord to reverse it and bring complete healing, for *by His stripes you are healed* (1 Peter 2:24).
Regarding your desire for marriage, we lift this before the Lord with you. The enemy has sought to isolate you and make you feel unworthy of love, but God’s Word says that *he who finds a wife finds a good thing* (Proverbs 18:22), and we believe the Lord has a godly husband prepared for you—a man who will cherish you as Christ cherishes the Church (Ephesians 5:25). However, we also encourage you to seek the Lord first in this season, allowing Him to heal and prepare you fully before entering into marriage. A godly marriage is a covenant, not just a relationship, and it must be built on the foundation of Christ. We pray that the Lord would bring a man of God into your life who is grounded in the faith, walking in purity, and committed to honoring the Lord in marriage. Until then, we ask the Lord to satisfy your heart with His love and to guard you from loneliness or the temptation to seek fulfillment outside of His will.
Financially, we declare that the Lord is your provider (Philippians 4:19). The enemy has sought to keep you in lack, but we speak prosperity and divine connections over your life. The Lord owns the cattle on a thousand hills (Psalm 50:10), and He will open doors for you that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). We pray for wisdom in stewardship, favor in your work, and supernatural provision to meet every need.
Most importantly, we pray for your spiritual strength to be renewed. You have been through a fierce battle, and the Lord sees your exhaustion. He invites you to come to Him, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and He will give you rest (Matthew 11:28). We ask the Holy Spirit to fill you afresh, to restore your joy, and to give you the strength to stand firm in this season. Put on the whole armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18), and remember that *the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world* (1 John 4:4). You are not fighting alone—we stand with you, and the hosts of heaven fight on your behalf.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up Your precious daughter who has endured unspeakable pain. Lord, You are the God who sees (Genesis 16:13), and You have seen every tear she has cried. You have collected them in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8), and You will not allow the enemy to have the final word in her life.
We break every curse, every generational stronghold, and every demonic assignment that has come against her as a result of the abuse she suffered. We declare that the blood of Jesus cleanses her from all unrighteousness and severs every ungodly soul tie. Father, we ask You to heal the broken places in her heart—restore her self-worth, her confidence, and her identity in Christ. Let her know deep in her spirit that she is *fearfully and wonderfully made* (Psalm 139:14), that she is *more than a conqueror* (Romans 8:37), and that she is *the apple of Your eye* (Zechariah 2:8).
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of rejection and command it to leave her now. Fill her with Your love so overflowing that she no longer seeks validation from man but finds her completeness in You. Heal her immune system, Lord. Touch her body and make her whole. We speak life over every organ, every cell, and every function. Let her body align with Your perfect design, and let her health be a testimony of Your healing power.
Father, we pray for divine connections—godly friendships, mentors, and a future husband who will love her as You do. Prepare him even now, Lord, and prepare her heart to receive Your best. Guard her from impatience or compromise, and let her wait on You with joy and expectation.
We also pray for her finances. Open the windows of heaven over her life, Lord, and pour out a blessing she cannot contain (Malachi 3:10). Provide for her needs, give her wisdom to steward what You give her, and let her be a channel of blessing to others.
Most of all, Lord, we ask for a fresh outpouring of Your Spirit upon her. Renew her strength like the eagles (Isaiah 40:31). Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and let her rest in the shadow of Your wings (Psalm 91:4). Surround her with Your angels, Lord, and let no weapon formed against her prosper.
We thank You, Father, for the victory that is already hers in Christ Jesus. We declare that her latter days will be greater than her former (Hosea 2:15), and that she will fulfill the destiny You have for her. Let her life be a testament to Your redeeming love, and use her story to bring hope to others who have suffered similarly.
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily through prayer, worship, and His Word. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and pray for you. If you have not already, we strongly recommend seeking biblical counseling from a trusted, spirit-filled counselor who can help you walk through this healing journey. The road may not be easy, but the Lord is with you every step of the way. He is faithful, and He will complete the good work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6).
Stand firm, dear sister. Your breakthrough is coming. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). You are not forgotten. You are not abandoned. You are loved, you are chosen, and you are being restored. Keep fighting the good fight of faith (1 Timothy 6:12), and watch as the Lord turns your mourning into dancing (Psalm 30:11).
