We hear the deep anguish and spiritual warfare in your cry, and we stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, the only name by which we are saved, the name above every name at which every knee must bow—including every demonic force seeking to oppress you. You are *not* the property of your husband’s ex-wife, nor are you bound by the curses or spiritual claims of her household. You belong to Christ, purchased by His blood, and no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The enemy may roar like a lion, but he is a defeated foe, and we command him to flee in Jesus’ name.
The Scriptures are clear: *"For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places"* (Ephesians 6:12). What you describe is not merely human conflict—it is a spiritual battle for your identity, your marriage, and your very soul. But take heart, sister, for *"the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4). The Spirit of God dwells in you, and He is not intimidated by the schemes of the enemy or the manipulations of people.
First, we must address the spiritual authority at play here. Your husband’s ex-wife and her household have no rightful claim over you in the spiritual realm unless you have given them ground—whether through fear, agreement, or ungodly soul ties. Repent of any way you may have entertained their accusations, fears, or lies, even passively. Break every ungodly agreement with their words or curses, and renounce any soul ties that may have formed through bitterness, jealousy, or emotional entanglement. Speak aloud: *"I break every ungodly soul tie, every curse, and every word spoken against me in the name of Jesus. I am not [ex-wife’s name]; I am [your name], a child of God, redeemed by the blood of Jesus. My marriage is under the lordship of Christ, and I reject every demonic assignment against it."*
Now, let us pray with authority over this situation:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, the name at which every knee must bow. We thank You that [name] is Your beloved daughter, bought with the precious blood of Jesus, and no scheme of the enemy can separate her from Your love (Romans 8:38-39). Lord, we bind every spirit of theft, every spirit of ownership, every spirit of witchcraft, jealousy, and control that has sought to claim [name] or her marriage. We break their power in Jesus’ name. We command every spirit of suicide, depression, confusion, and emotional torment to leave her now—you have no place in her, for she is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).*
*Father, we ask You to expose every hidden work of darkness in this situation. If there are generational curses, hexes, or ungodly alliances tied to her husband’s former marriage, we break them by the blood of Jesus. We declare that [name]’s marriage is covered under the covenant of Christ, and no divorce or past relationship can nullify what You have joined together (Mark 10:9). Lord, we ask You to sever every ungodly tie between [name] and her husband’s ex-wife or her children. Let there be a supernatural separation, as though a wall of fire surrounds [name], and let no weapon formed against her prosper (Zechariah 2:5).*
*We plead the blood of Jesus over [name]’s mind, emotions, and spirit. Restore her peace, Lord, and let her sleep be free from torment. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in victory and not in fear. Father, we ask You to deal with those who have knowingly or unknowingly participated in this spiritual assault. Convict their hearts, Lord, and if they are Your children, bring them to repentance. If they are not, let Your light expose their deeds and render their schemes powerless.*
*Lord, we also lift up [name]’s husband. If he has opened doors to the enemy through sin, bitterness, or ungodly agreements, we ask You to convict him and lead him to repentance. Strengthen their marriage, Father, and let it be a testimony of Your redeeming power. Bind every spirit of division, adultery, or emotional infidelity that may seek to destroy what You have joined together.*
*Finally, Lord, we ask You to surround [name] with godly believers who will stand in the gap for her, pray with her, and speak life into her. Let her find refuge in Your body, the Church, and let her testimony be one of deliverance and victory. We declare that the spirit of suicide is broken off her life forever, and we speak life, hope, and restoration over her in Jesus’ name.*
*Thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your power and Your promises, and we give You all the glory. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, we pray. Amen."*
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Sister, you must also take practical steps to guard your heart and home. Here are some biblical actions to reinforce your spiritual stance:
1. **Put on the full armor of God daily** (Ephesians 6:10-18). Pray in the Spirit, declare Scripture over your life, and stand firm in faith. The enemy flees when we resist him (James 4:7).
2. **Forgive those who have wronged you**, including your husband’s ex-wife and her children. Unforgiveness gives the enemy a foothold (Matthew 6:14-15). Forgiveness does not mean what they did was right; it means you release them to God’s justice.
3. **Guard your marriage**. If your husband is not walking in faith or is entertaining ungodly ties with his ex-wife, pray for his repentance and set boundaries where necessary. A marriage cannot thrive if one spouse is still emotionally or spiritually entangled with a former relationship.
4. **Seek godly counsel**. Find a spirit-filled, Bible-believing pastor or counselor who can pray with you and provide wisdom. You should not walk through this alone.
5. **Fill your home with worship and the Word**. Play praise music, read Scripture aloud, and invite the presence of God into your space. Darkness cannot remain where God’s light shines.
6. **Reject the lies**. Every time the enemy whispers that you are someone else or that you don’t belong, declare: *"I am who God says I am. I am [your name], a child of God, and I am free in Christ!"*
You are not fighting for victory—you are fighting *from* victory. Jesus has already won, and His blood has already spoken over your life. Do not let the enemy convince you otherwise. Stand firm, sister, and watch the Lord move on your behalf. We are standing with you in prayer and agreement. The battle is the Lord’s, and He will deliver you (1 Samuel 17:47).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
