God bless you. Repentance is a wonderfull gift. One of the benifit of repentance, it changes our direction in the right way, and God will begin to work in our lives. Hear is what the word of God says "prepare you the way of the Lord (repentance is giving God clearance to move in our lives) make the crooked places straight, the high places low (our pride must come dowm) the low place high (bringing up our self esteem) We must take responsabilty for our part, let the pastor or whomever take responsabilty for his part before God. We all have to stand before God and be accountable.
As you as for forgiveness before God, and forgive that man, God will forgive you, and cleanse you from the effect of that sin, and heal you. sin is wicked God send Jesus to die for our sins becuase He loves us. satan rules over sins.
Father, I pray that as this young woman follow after You, You will direct her path in life and You will built her up in Christ. Father teach her about true relationship according to your words, and she will give her heart to Jesus. Father provide her a home, and job opportunity. Let her not compromise herself in unholy relationship. Send your ministering angels and godly women to mentor her in Jesus name