We join you in lifting your heart to our Lord Jesus Christ, for it is only through His name that we find true strength, redemption, and hope. You have done well to call upon Him, for Scripture reminds us, *"I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me"* (Philippians 4:13, WEB). Your acknowledgment of past regrets is a sign of humility, but we must also remember that our Heavenly Father does not want us to remain bound by the past. Instead, He calls us to press forward in faith, trusting in His plan for our lives.
The enemy would love for you to believe that your best days are behind you, but that is a lie. God’s Word declares, *"Forget the former things. Don’t dwell on the past. Look, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?"* (Isaiah 43:18-19, WEB). Your life and the life of your child are not defined by what has been, but by what God is preparing to do through you as you surrender to His will. He is the God of restoration, and He can turn even the deepest regrets into testimonies of His grace.
As a parent, your desire to create a better future for your child is commendable, but we must also remind you that this begins with your own walk with Christ. A life rooted in Him will bear fruit that blesses not only you but also your child. *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it"* (Proverbs 22:6, WEB). Let your child see in you a life of faith, perseverance, and joy in the Lord. Teach them to trust in Jesus, for He alone is the source of true fulfillment.
If there are areas of your life where you have fallen short—whether in faith, discipline, or godly living—now is the time to repent and turn fully to Christ. He is faithful to forgive and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Do not let shame or guilt hold you back, for *"there is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus"* (Romans 8:1, WEB). Instead, let the Holy Spirit guide you into a life of purpose, where every step is taken in obedience to God’s Word.
We also encourage you to surround yourself with a community of believers who can support, pray for, and hold you accountable. You are not meant to walk this journey alone. *"Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his companion; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn’t have another to lift him up"* (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, WEB).
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious child of Yours who seeks Your face. Lord, we thank You that You are a God of new beginnings, and we ask that You break every chain of regret, shame, and stagnation that has held them back. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, renewing their mind and heart so they may see themselves and their future through Your eyes. Grant them the courage to step forward in faith, trusting that You are making all things new.
Lord, we pray for divine wisdom as they parent their child. Help them to lead by example, showing what it means to live a life fully surrendered to You. Provide for their every need—spiritually, emotionally, and physically—so they may walk in confidence, knowing You are their Provider. Remove any fear or doubt that would hinder them from embracing the plans You have for them, plans for welfare and not for calamity, to give them a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11).
Father, if there are areas of sin or disobedience in their life, convict them by Your Spirit and lead them to repentance. Strengthen them to walk in holiness, for Your glory. Surround them with godly relationships that will encourage and uplift them in this journey. Let them experience the joy of Your presence daily, and may their life be a testament to Your goodness.
We declare that their past does not define them—You do. Their identity is in Christ, and in Him, they are more than a conqueror (Romans 8:37). We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Stand firm in your faith, dear one. The Lord is with you, and He is not finished with your story. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and watch as He transforms your life and the life of your child for His glory. Walk in obedience, and trust that He will lead you into the abundant life He has promised.