We hear your cry for protection, control, and a godly marriage that remains untouched by evil forces. Your words reveal deep pain, fear, and a desire for security in relationships, but we must first address some critical biblical truths and concerns.
First, salvation and access to God come only through Jesus Christ. There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be Lord of your life. Without this foundation, no decree or demand will hold power in the spiritual realm. Jesus said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"* (John 14:6).
Your language reflects a struggle with spiritual warfare, but we must caution against the misuse of "decrees" and "commands" as if they carry power apart from God’s will. True authority in Christ comes from humility, submission to God, and alignment with His Word—not from our own strength or demands. James 4:7 says, *"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* We do not bind demons by our own might but by the power of the Holy Spirit working through us as we stand on God’s promises.
Regarding relationships, we must address the biblical standard for marriage. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If you are seeking a spouse, we encourage you to pursue someone who shares your faith in Christ, as Scripture warns against being *"unequally yoked"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). Courtship should be God-honoring, with purity and marriage as the goal. Any sexual activity outside of marriage is fornication and grieves the Lord (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If you have been involved in such sin, repent and seek God’s forgiveness—He is faithful to cleanse and restore (1 John 1:9).
Your mention of "raping weirdos" and spiritual attacks is deeply concerning. We rebuke in Jesus’ name any demonic influence or trauma you may have endured. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came to give life abundantly (John 10:10). We declare healing over your mind, body, and spirit. However, we must also warn against attributing evil to specific people or engaging in "karma" language, as vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19). Our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces (Ephesians 6:12).
Let us pray together:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved. Lord, we lift up this dear one to You, asking for Your healing and protection. Cleanse any unconfessed sin, including sexual immorality or unforgiveness, and break every chain of trauma or fear. We rebuke every demonic assignment against their life, marriage, and future, declaring that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Father, we ask for godly wisdom in relationships. Lead them to a spouse who loves You and will honor the covenant of marriage. Guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Teach them to walk in humility, submitting to Your will rather than demanding their own way. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and let Your grace be sufficient in every trial (2 Corinthians 12:9). We declare that the enemy has no foothold in their life, for they are covered by the blood of Jesus. Thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen."*
We encourage you to ground yourself in Scripture, surround yourself with a biblical community, and seek godly counsel. True security comes not from our own decrees but from abiding in Christ. *"Apart from me, you can do nothing"* (John 15:5). Trust in His timing and His plan for your life. If you have endured abuse or trauma, we urge you to seek professional Christian counseling to walk through healing. You are not alone—God sees you, loves you, and will restore what has been broken.