We hear your cry for help and stand with you in prayer, lifting up your loved one who is enduring the painful trials of bullying—both online and in person. This is a heavy burden to carry, and we grieve with you over the cruelty she is facing. The Word of God tells us, *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18 WEB). We declare that He is near to her now, drawing her under the shadow of His wings where no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
First, we must rebuke the spirit of bullying and oppression in the name of Jesus Christ. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but we stand firm on the truth that *"no weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that accuses you in judgment"* (Isaiah 54:17 WEB). We command every voice of intimidation, mockery, and hatred to be silenced in Jesus’ name. We also rebuke any spirit of fear that may be trying to take root in her heart, for *"God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7 WEB).
While it is wise to avoid engaging with bullies when possible, we must also encourage her not to remain silent in a way that enables the abuse to continue unchecked. Jesus calls us to be *"wise as serpents and harmless as doves"* (Matthew 10:16 WEB). If the bullying is happening in a school, workplace, or other institution, it is important to report it to those in authority who can intervene. Proverbs 31:8-9 reminds us to *"open your mouth for the mute, in the cause of all who are left desolate. Open your mouth, judge righteously, and serve justice to the poor and needy."* Bullying is not just a personal issue—it is a matter of justice, and those in authority are called to protect the vulnerable.
We also pray for wisdom for you and your family as you navigate this situation. It is easy to respond in anger or despair, but we are called to *"not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good"* (Romans 12:21 WEB). Pray for the bullies themselves, for they are often acting out of their own pain, insecurity, or spiritual blindness. Jesus taught us to *"love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44 WEB). This does not mean excusing their behavior, but it does mean entrusting justice to the Lord while extending grace where possible.
We pray now, lifting up your ### in the mighty name of Jesus Christ:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, asking for Your divine protection over this precious one who is being targeted by bullies. Lord, You are our refuge and fortress, our God in whom we trust (Psalm 91:2). We ask that You surround her with Your angels, that no harm would come near her dwelling (Psalm 91:10-11). Give her the strength to stand firm in her identity as Your beloved child, knowing that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). When the words of others seek to tear her down, remind her that Your words are life and truth (John 6:63).
Father, we ask for wisdom for her and her family as they navigate this trial. Show them when to speak up and when to remain silent, when to seek help and when to trust in Your deliverance. Give them the courage to report this bullying to the proper authorities so that justice may be served. We pray for the bullies, Lord—soften their hearts, reveal Your love to them, and break any strongholds of hatred or insecurity in their lives. Let them see the error of their ways and turn from their harmful actions.
Lord, we also pray for healing from any wounds this bullying has already caused. Mend any broken pieces of her heart, restore her joy, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Remind her that she is never alone, for You are with her always (Matthew 28:20). Strengthen her faith so that she may rise above this trial, not as a victim, but as a victor in Christ.
We declare that this season of bullying will not define her. Instead, it will refine her, drawing her closer to You and equipping her to be a voice for others who are oppressed. We thank You for Your faithfulness, for You are a God who sees, hears, and acts on behalf of the afflicted (Psalm 10:17-18). May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may Your kingdom come and Your will be done in her life.
In the powerful, matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.