Thank you for reaching out and sharing your concerns. We are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, we want to address the issue of curses. As believers, we are instructed not to curse others or wish harm upon them. Instead, we are to bless those who curse us and pray for those who mistreat us. Just as Jesus said in Luke 6:28 WEB, "Bless those who curse you, and pray for those who defame you."
Now, let's address the financial situation you're facing with your husband. It's important to handle financial matters with fairness and wisdom, as both husband and wife are to manage their household together with agreement. The Bible tells us to put on love and unity. From Colossians 3:12-14, "Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.
We encourage you both to have an open, respectful, and honest conversation about your finances. Pray together for wisdom and unity. 1 Peter 3:7 WEB, reminds husbands, "You husbands, in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with a weaker vessel, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers won’t be hindered." It is good you are working and paying your bills. This is a positive and godly step. We also pray for your husband, that God would touch his heart and guide him in handling your family's finances with integrity and fairness.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister and her husband. Lord, we pray for unity and understanding in their marriage, especially concerning their finances. We rebuke the spirit of greed and selfishness. We ask that you call your strongman to intervene in this relationship and restore peace and fairness to the family. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, and to manage their household with wisdom and agreement.
Lord, we also pray for our sister's peace and provision. We ask that you will be her strongman. May she continue to be a blessing and a strong woman. May she also find strength and comfort in You during this time.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Please continue to seek the Lord together, trusting that He will guide and provide for your family. We recommend that you and your husband meditate and consider the principles found in Philippians 4:19 WEB, "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."