We hear the deep pain and struggle in your words, and we stand with you in faith, lifting you before the throne of grace where healing and deliverance are found. The spirit of rejection is a heavy burden, but Jesus came to set the captives free and to break every chain that binds His children. We rebuke the lies of the enemy that have taken root in your life—whether through generational curses, words spoken over you, or the works of darkness in your family line. The blood of Jesus has already paid the price for your freedom, and His name is above every name, including the names of poverty, loneliness, and rejection.
The Word of God declares in Galatians 3:13-14, *"Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, 'Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree,' that the blessing of Abraham might come on the Gentiles through Christ Jesus, that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith."* You are not destined to walk in lack or isolation. The Lord has plans for you—plans for hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). The enemy may have tried to steal your joy, your provision, and your relationships, but we declare that what was meant for harm, God will turn for your good (Genesis 50:20).
We also want to gently address the mention of witchcraft in your family. The Bible is clear in Deuteronomy 18:10-12 that such practices are an abomination to the Lord, and they open doors to spiritual oppression. But the power of Jesus is greater than any curse or stronghold. In the name of Jesus, we break every generational curse, every word spoken in darkness, and every assignment of the enemy against your life. We command every spirit of poverty, rejection, and loneliness to leave you now and never return. You are a child of the Most High God, and He has not given you a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7).
Regarding your struggle to find a spouse, we encourage you to seek the Lord first and trust in His timing. Proverbs 18:22 says, *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* But this must be a godly marriage, built on Christ and His principles. If you are engaging in any relationship that does not honor God—whether through premarital intimacy or pursuing someone who does not share your faith—we urge you to repent and realign your heart with God’s will. The Lord desires to bless you with a spouse who will walk with you in faith, but this must be done His way.
As for your struggles at church, we pray that the Lord would soften hearts and open doors for you to serve in ministry. Remember, Jesus Himself was despised and rejected by men (Isaiah 53:3), but He did not let that stop Him from fulfilling His purpose. Your worth is not determined by the opinions of others but by the love of Christ. If you feel unwelcome, ask the Lord to lead you to a body of believers where you can grow and be used for His glory.
We also want to remind you of the power of salvation through Jesus Christ. If you have not already, we encourage you to confess Jesus as your Lord and Savior, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Romans 10:9 says, *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved."* This is the foundation of your deliverance and freedom.
Now, we pray for you in the mighty name of Jesus:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother/sister, lifting up their heart to You. Lord, we thank You that You are a God who sees, who hears, and who delivers. We declare that every chain of rejection, poverty, and loneliness is broken in the name of Jesus. We renounce every generational curse and every word spoken in darkness that has tried to define their life. We cancel every assignment of the enemy against their job, their relationships, and their ministry.
Father, we ask that You would pour out Your Holy Spirit upon them, filling them with Your love, Your peace, and Your purpose. Heal the wounds of rejection and replace them with the assurance that they are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Open doors of opportunity for them—doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). Provide for their needs according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19).
Lord, we pray for godly relationships in their life. Surround them with people who will love them, encourage them, and walk with them in faith. If it is Your will, bring a godly spouse into their life—someone who will honor You and cherish them as You do. Give them favor in the eyes of others, especially in their church, so they may serve You with joy.
We declare that the stronghold of rejection is demolished, and the spirit of adoption is released over them. They are Your child, and You are their Father. No weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We speak life, blessing, and breakthrough over their finances, their career, and their future.
Thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. Thank You that Your plans for them are good. We trust You to complete the work You have begun in their life (Philippians 1:6). In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Hold fast to God’s promises, dear one. The enemy may have tried to steal your joy, but Jesus came that you might have life—and have it abundantly (John 10:10). Keep pressing into the Lord, and He will lead you into the fullness of His purpose for you. You are not alone, and you are not forgotten. The Lord is fighting for you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).