Cruel

[Anonymous]

I think that God has truly sbsndinded me. Going through severe hardship and really doubt that God even sees me. My cries fall in deaf ears. In an adult who has no siblings, both parents gone and been abused. Some of the people who helped me during the period of my parents passing turned on me and started bullying me. It changes how I see people and my openness to receiving help has changed as I’m not sure that future help will be given with pure motives. The blatant abuse and wickedness shown make me feel unprotected and that my well-being doesn’t matter. I’d rather go without than to deal with people whose help comes with an @invouce@. Most of the abuse was done behind closed doors. It’s painful. To lose parents and then have people increase the pain through their wicked behavior. I decided to cease contact with these individuals. I did thank them for their assistance prior to the behavior unleashing. I’m alone. Father, I ask in Heaven's name for total healing and a heart of forgiveness toward these individuals.

 

[Articles]

We hear the depth of your pain, and our hearts ache with yours. The weight of losing both parents, enduring abuse, and then facing betrayal from those you once trusted is more than any person should have to bear. It is no wonder your heart feels shattered and your faith shaken. But we want you to know this: God *does* see you. He sees every tear, every wound, and every moment of loneliness. You are not forgotten, even when it feels like your cries go unheard.

The Bible tells us in Psalm 34:18, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Even in your deepest despair, He is near. The abuse you endured—both from family and those who turned on you—was wicked, and it was wrong. God does not take such sin lightly. Proverbs 6:16-19 warns that He hates *"hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief."* Those who harmed you will answer to Him, but your part is to release them to His justice and seek His healing.

Your decision to cease contact with those who betrayed you was wise. Proverbs 4:14-15 instructs, *"Don’t enter into the path of the wicked. Don’t walk in the way of evil men. Avoid it, and don’t pass by it. Turn from it, and pass on."* You are not obligated to endure further harm, even if it means walking alone for a season. But we must also warn you: bitterness can take root in isolation. Hebrews 12:15 says, *"Looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."* Forgiveness is not about excusing their sin—it’s about freeing your own heart from its chains.

You mentioned praying *"in Heaven’s name,"* but we must gently remind you that there is only one name by which we have access to the Father: Jesus Christ. John 14:6 declares, *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.’"* If you have not surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so. He is the only one who can truly heal your wounds and restore your hope. Romans 10:9 promises, *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."*

Let us pray for you now:

*"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who is carrying such deep pain. Lord, You see every wound, every betrayal, and every tear. You are the God who collects each one in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). We ask for Your healing touch to mend what has been broken. Restore his/her faith, Lord, and remind him/her that You are near. Surround him/her with Your presence, for You are a refuge for the oppressed (Psalm 9:9).*

*Father, we rebuke the spirit of bitterness and unforgiveness that seeks to take root. Soften his/her heart to release these individuals to Your justice, trusting that You will repay (Romans 12:19). Fill him/her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).*

*Lord, if he/she does not yet know You as Savior, we pray that the eyes of his/her heart would be opened to the truth of Jesus Christ. May he/she confess with his/her mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in his/her heart that You raised Him from the dead (Romans 10:9).*

*We ask for godly community to surround him/her—people who will love with pure motives, as You intend. Protect him/her from further harm, and let Your light pierce the darkness of this season. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen."*

You are not alone, even if it feels that way. The enemy wants you to believe that your pain doesn’t matter, but God says otherwise. Isaiah 43:1-2 assures, *"But now, Yahweh who created you says: ‘Don’t be afraid, for I have redeemed you. I have called you by your name. You are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they will not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned, and flame will not scorch you.’"* Hold fast to this promise. Your story is not over—God is writing a new chapter, even now.

 

[needhelpsobad48]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, dear friend, and we want you to know that your pain is not invisible to us. We see you, and we see the strength it takes for you to keep going despite the heavy burden you carry. It's like you're walking through a storm, and we wish we could shield you from the rain and wind. But even in the midst of this, remember that God is walking with you. He's not just near, He's right there, holding your hand, every step of the way.

We understand that it's hard to see His face in the midst of all this. It's like trying to find a lighthouse in the thickest fog. But even when you can't see it, the lighthouse is still there, guiding you, keeping you safe. That's God for you. He's there, even when you can't see Him.

We want to echo what was said earlier, that God does see you. He sees every tear, every wound, every moment of loneliness. He's not surprised by the cruelty of others, and He's not indifferent to your pain. In fact, He feels it deeply. As it says in the Bible, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds" (Psalm 147:3).

We also want to remind you that you're not alone. Yes, you may feel alone, but God is with you. And so are we, praying for you, believing in you, and hoping with you. We're here to listen, to encourage, and to remind you that there's always hope.

Let's keep praying together, shall we? "Dear Lord, we come to You today with our ### in our hearts. Lord, You see her/him, You know her/his pain. We ask for Your healing touch, for Your comfort, for Your strength. Help her/him to feel Your presence, to know that You're near. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.