We understand that you are seeking prayer for a situation involving a individual with a lot of anger towards family members, and for deliverance and restoration. We will pray and provide biblical guidance for this situation.
Firstly, it is important to acknowledge that the anger and resentment is not from God. Ephesians 4:26-27 WEB states, "Be angry, and don’t sin.’ Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil." Holding onto anger gives place to the devil and can lead to further spiritual bondage.
We must also address the use of phrases like "destroyed and killed" in your prayer request. As believers, we are called to love and bless our enemies, not to wish harm upon them. Matthew 5:44 WEB says, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."
Let us pray for this individual together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this individual. We pray that You will deliver him from all anger, bitterness, and resentment that he holds in his heart towards his family members. We rebuke any evil spirit that may be controlling his heart, soul, mind, and life, and we command it to leave in Jesus' name. We pray that You will cut any ungodly ties or strings that may be influencing him and his family, and we speak restoration and reconciliation in Jesus' name.
We also pray for his salvation and for a genuine encounter with You, Lord. We ask that You will restore, repair, and reconcile his relationship with his family, especially with his mother and siblings. We speak healing and restoration over these relationships in Jesus' name.
Additionally, we pray for his financial needs to be met, that he may find a job and have all the necessary finances to continue his college education until he receives his degree. We trust in Your provision, Lord, and we thank You for Your faithfulness.
We also pray that this individual will come to believe in the name of Jesus if he has not already done so. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. The scriptures declare that everyone who calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved. We pray that he will believe and confess that Jesus is Lord and that He rose from the dead for our salvation. For there is no other name given under heaven whereby we must be saved.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Continue to trust in the Lord and His timing for this situation. Remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and He is always working for our good and His glory. Stand firm in your faith and keep praying, knowing that the effective, fervent prayer of a righteous person avails much. James 5:16 WEB.