We join you in bringing your communication and your heart's desires before the Lord and we thank God that you want healing and restoration and a life filled with His peace. We pray with you for healing in your communication and for the ability to pray with a clear and peaceful mind again, for the Lord desires that our speech be wholesome and life giving. Ephesians 4:29 says let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear, and Proverbs 16:24 says pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones. We also pray for your restoration, for God promises in Joel 2:25 that He will restore to you the years that the locust has eaten, and we ask Him to give you His extraordinary favor and His perfect peace as you cast your cares on Him, for 1 Peter 5:7 says cast all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you, and Philippians 4:6-7 says in nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God, and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.
We rejoice that you desire a godly marriage and a husband like Boaz, a man who is kind, loyal, faithful, loving and caring, and we strongly affirm God's design for marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, for Genesis 2:24 says a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh, and Mark 10:9 says what therefore God has joined together, let no man separate. We pray that the Lord will lead you to a godly husband, a Christian believer who fears the Lord, for 2 Corinthians 6:14 says do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, and that your courtship would be with the goal of holy marriage that honors God. In love we must address what you shared about this boyfriend making love to you every day, for if you are not married, this is fornication, which is sexual intimacy outside of marriage, and Scripture calls us to flee from it. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says flee sexual immorality, every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body, and Hebrews 13:4 says let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers, and 1 Thessalonians 4:3 says for this is the will of God, your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality. A true Boaz will not lead you into fornication but will protect your purity, honor you, and pursue marriage in a way that is holy before the Lord, and we encourage you to commit yourself to purity until marriage and to seek a relationship that reflects Christ and the church, Ephesians 5:25. If you have been walking in this, we encourage you to confess it to the Lord and turn from it, for 1 John 1:9 says if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness, and the blood of Jesus brings forgiveness and cleansing, Ephesians 1:7 says in him we have our redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace.
We also want to lovingly correct the way you are praying for others to go mute, deaf, dumb and numb, even those you feel are not in God's will or assignments against you. While we understand your desire for protection for yourself, your mother, your three children, your pets and your family and friends, and we join you in praying for your safety and for peaceful communication, we are not called to curse people made in the image of God. James 3:9-10 says with it we bless our God and Father, and with it we curse men, who are made in the image of God, out of the same mouth comes blessing and cursing, my brothers, these things ought not to be so, and Matthew 5:44 says love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you, and Romans 12:14 says bless those who persecute you, bless, and do not curse. We can pray for the Lord to silence the plans of the enemy and to protect us from evil assignments, for Ephesians 6:12 says our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places, and Psalm 91:1 says he who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty, but we leave vengeance and judgment to God, Romans 12:19, and we pray for God's will to be done and for even those who oppose us to come to repentance.
We pray together now in Jesus' name, for it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father, John 14:6 says Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life, no one comes to the Father, except through me, and Acts 4:12 says there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
We pray Father, we lift this dear one to You in Jesus' name and ask for deep healing in her communication, that her words and her thoughts would be renewed by Your Spirit and filled with grace, truth and love, and that her mind would be at peace to pray without fear or heaviness. We ask You to restore what has been broken and to do even more than she could imagine according to Your will, and to align the desires of her heart with Your perfect will, for Psalm 37:4 says delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart, and Proverbs 3:5-6 says trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. We ask You to provide a godly husband if it is Your will, a man after Your own heart who will love her as Christ loves the church, who will lead her with kindness, loyalty, faithfulness and purity toward holy marriage, and we ask for help to walk in sexual purity and holiness until that day. We ask for Your protection over her, her mother, her three children, her pets, her family and friends, keep them safe from harm and let no weapon formed against them prosper, Isaiah 54:17, and let their home be filled with peace and godly communication, and we ask that You would silence the voice of the enemy and frustrate every assignment not of You, while having mercy on people and drawing them to Yourself. We thank You for the blood of Jesus that cleanses and redeems us and we trust not in a formula but in the living Christ. Fill her with Your favor, Your joy, and freedom from worry, and help her to walk as a new creation in You, 2 Corinthians 5:17. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, amen.