We grieve with you and your mother during this painful season of loss, and we lift you both before the Lord, who is the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort. The Scriptures remind us in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, *"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort; who comforts us in all our affliction, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, through the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God."* Your father’s passing is a deep sorrow, but we trust in the hope that Jesus has conquered death, and for those who believe in Him, this separation is temporary. Your father’s soul is now in the hands of the Lord if he placed his faith in Christ, and one day, you will be reunited in eternity.
To your mother, we say with tenderness: the Lord sees your tears, and He collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). While grief is natural and even righteous, we must not let sorrow overwhelm us to the point of despair, for we do not grieve as those who have no hope (1 Thessalonians 4:13). Your husband’s life was a gift from God, and though his time on earth has ended, his legacy and the love he shared remain. Cling to the Lord, who promises to never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Lean on your children, your church family, and the body of Christ for support—you are not alone in this.
We also encourage you both to fix your hearts on the truth of the resurrection. Jesus said in John 11:25-26, *"I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will still live, even if he dies. Whoever lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?"* If your father knew Christ as his Savior, then death is but a doorway to eternal life in His presence. If his faith was uncertain, we urge you to commit his soul to the mercy of God, trusting that the Lord is just and righteous in all His ways.
Let us pray together for you and your mother:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy yet hopeful hearts, lifting up this family who mourns the loss of their father and husband. Lord, You are the God who binds up the brokenhearted and heals their wounds (Psalm 147:3). We ask that You wrap Your arms of comfort around this mother and her children, filling the emptiness they feel with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Remind them that You are their refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
For this mother, we pray for supernatural strength. Uphold her in her weakness, Lord, and let her find rest in You. Replace her anxiety with Your perfect peace as she casts all her cares upon You (1 Peter 5:7). Surround her with Your people—those who will weep with her, pray with her, and remind her of Your promises. Help her to remember the joyful moments she shared with her husband and to hold fast to the hope of reunion in Your presence.
For this child who misses their father, we ask that You would be their ever-present Father. Comfort them in their loneliness and assure them that You are near. Help them to honor their father’s memory by living a life that reflects Your love and faithfulness.
Lord, we also pray that this family would draw closer to You through this trial. Let their grief drive them to seek Your face more earnestly, to trust in Your sovereignty, and to find their comfort in Your Word. May they experience the truth of Psalm 30:5, that *"weeping may stay for the night, but joy comes in the morning."*
We rebuked any spirit of despair, fear, or prolonged sorrow that would seek to take root in their hearts. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command these spirits to flee, and we declare that the peace of God will guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Finally, Father, we thank You that because of Jesus, death is not the end. We thank You for the hope of the resurrection and the promise of eternal life for all who believe. Strengthen this family’s faith, Lord, and let them find their comfort in You alone.
In the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Comforter, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you both to spend time in the Psalms, where David and others poured out their grief and found solace in God. Psalm 23, Psalm 46, and Psalm 121 are particularly comforting. Also, lean on your church community—allow them to serve you, pray with you, and walk alongside you in this season. If your mother is struggling with anxiety or depression, gently encourage her to seek godly counsel or support. Most of all, keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He is with you, and He will carry you through.