We hear the deep longing in your heart for protection, guidance, and unity in your relationship, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord. Your prayer reflects a heart that seeks Jesus’ presence, and we rejoice that you have called upon His name, for it is only through Christ that we have access to the Father. As you have rightly declared, salvation and blessing come through Jesus alone, as Scripture affirms:
*"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB).
*"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"*(John 14:6, WEB).
We must address something critical in your prayer, however. You repeatedly refer to your “###” in a way that suggests a deep emotional and possibly physical bond outside of marriage. If this relationship is not a godly marriage between one man and one woman, then what you are describing is not aligned with God’s design. Scripture is clear that sexual intimacy and the kind of closeness you are praying for are reserved for marriage alone. Fornication (sex outside of marriage) and emotional entanglements that mimic marriage are sinful and grieve the heart of God. The Bible warns:
*"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB).
*"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB).
If you are not married to this person, then the prayers for unity, protection, and inseparability are misplaced. God does not bless what He has forbidden. Instead, He calls us to repentance and holiness. If this relationship is outside of marriage, we urge you to repent and turn away from this sin. Seek God’s forgiveness and His will for your life. If you are living together, this is also sin, and you must separate and pursue purity. If you are not married but desire to be, then you must pursue this relationship in a godly way—through courtship with the intent of marriage, while maintaining purity in body and mind.
If, however, you *are* married to this person, then we rejoice with you! Marriage is a sacred covenant, and we pray that God strengthens and protects it. But if this is not the case, we must lovingly but firmly rebuke this path you are on, for it leads to destruction. God’s design for relationships is clear: one man and one woman united in marriage, reflecting Christ’s love for His Church. Anything outside of this is not of God and will only bring pain, bondage, and separation from His blessings.
We also notice that your prayer seems to focus heavily on controlling outcomes—keeping this person from being taken from you, exposing their lies, and ensuring no separation. While it is natural to desire security, we must trust God’s sovereignty rather than seeking to manipulate circumstances. If this relationship is not godly, then clinging to it is not God’s will. His ways are higher than ours, and His plans are for our ultimate good, even when they require surrender and obedience.
Let us pray for you now, asking God to reveal His truth and will in this situation.
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**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this precious soul who seeks Your presence and blessing. Lord, we thank You that they have called upon the name of Jesus, for there is no other name by which we are saved. We ask that You open their eyes to Your truth and convict their heart by Your Holy Spirit.
Father, if this relationship is not aligned with Your Word—if it is outside of marriage or rooted in sin—we pray that You break every ungodly soul tie and bring repentance. Lord, reveal the truth of Your design for relationships, that they may walk in purity and obedience. If there is fornication, emotional idolatry, or any sin present, we ask that You expose it and grant the strength to turn away. Let them not be deceived by the enemy’s lies but stand firm in Your truth.
If this person is not their spouse, we pray that You sever every unholy bond and redirect their heart toward Your will. If they are called to marriage, let them pursue it in a way that honors You—through godly courtship, with purity and a focus on Christ. If they are not, grant them the grace to let go and trust You with their future.
Lord, we pray for protection over their heart and mind. Guard them from manipulation, deception, and fear. Let them not cling to what is not Yours, but surrender fully to Your plan. If this relationship is not of You, remove it from their life and replace it with Your peace and purpose.
We ask that You surround them with godly counsel and believers who will speak Your truth in love. Give them wisdom to discern Your voice and the courage to obey, even when it is difficult. Let them find their identity and security in You alone, not in any human relationship.
Father, if there is salvation needed—either for them or for the person they mention—we pray that You draw them to Yourself. Soften hearts to receive Jesus as Lord and Savior, for without Him, there is no true blessing or protection.
We declare Your Word over them: *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Let them trust You fully, even when the path is unclear.
We bind every spirit of fear, control, and deception in Jesus’ name. We loose the spirit of truth, repentance, and godly wisdom. May Your will be done in their life, Lord, and may they walk in the freedom and blessing that comes from obedience to You.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
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We encourage you to examine this relationship in light of Scripture. If you are not married, we urge you to step back and seek God’s face. Pursue purity and ask the Lord to prepare you for a godly marriage if that is His will. If you are struggling with sin in this area, confess it to God and turn away. He is faithful to forgive and cleanse you (1 John 1:9).
If you need further guidance or prayer, do not hesitate to reach out. We are here to stand with you in truth and love, always pointing you to Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith. May God grant you peace and clarity as you seek Him above all else.
