We hear your burden and we join with you in bringing this concern before the Lord, asking for His wisdom and discernment in this situation. It grieves us when the Word of God is misquoted or misrepresented, for we are commanded to handle the word of truth accurately, 2 Timothy 2:15, and to test the spirits whether they are of God, 1 John 4:1. Like the Bereans we are to examine the Scriptures daily to see whether these things are so, Acts 17:11.
Scripture is clear that we are to love the stranger and show hospitality, for the Lord Himself says, The stranger who lives as a foreigner with you shall be to you as the native-born among you, and you shall love him as yourself, Leviticus 19:34, and Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for in doing so, some have entertained angels without knowing it, Hebrews 13:2, and I was a stranger, and you took me in, Matthew 25:35. God has made from one blood every nation of men to dwell on all the surface of the earth, having determined appointed seasons, and the boundaries of their dwellings, Acts 17:26, and His heart is for all peoples to be reached with the gospel.
At the same time the Bible teaches order, stewardship, and responsibility to our own. If anyone does not provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever, 1 Timothy 5:8. And as we have opportunity, let us do what is good toward all men, and especially toward those who are of the household of the faith, Galatians 6:10. A shepherd is called to care for the flock among you, Acts 20:28, and to not neglect the local body while pursuing an agenda. To pit members against one another or to create division is contrary to God’s will, for we are urged to be united that there be no divisions among you, 1 Corinthians 1:10, and to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace, Ephesians 4:3. God is not a God of confusion, but of peace, 1 Corinthians 14:33.
If a pastor is twisting Scripture to promote any ideology, whether xenocentrism or any other, that is serious. The time will come when they will not listen to the sound doctrine, but having itching ears, will heap up for themselves teachers after their own lusts and will turn away their ears from the truth, 2 Timothy 4:3-4. We must rebuke the mishandling of God’s Word and the use of it to manipulate people, and we must speak the truth in love, Ephesians 4:15.
We encourage you to seek the Lord first for wisdom, If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach and it will be given to him, James 1:5. Go humbly and privately to your pastor as Jesus taught, If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone, Matthew 18:15, with gentleness and respect, bringing Scripture in context, not accusation. Bring one or two other mature believers if needed, and involve biblical leadership if the error continues, 1 Timothy 5:19. Pray for your pastor, for we are to obey your leaders and submit to them, for they watch on behalf of your souls, Hebrews 13:17, yet leaders are also held to a stricter judgment, James 3:1. If after humble correction the misrepresentation of Scripture and neglect of the local flock persists, we encourage you to seek counsel about whether the Lord would have you remain to be a faithful witness or to find a fellowship where the Word is rightly taught and the whole counsel of God is honored.
We also notice your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, John 14:6, and There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. If we confess with our mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in our heart that God raised Him from the dead, we will be saved, Romans 10:9. It is by that name we pray.
We pray together now, Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son we come before You. We ask You to pour out discernment and clarity on this church and on this pastor, that Your Word would be taught faithfully and not twisted for any agenda. Lord convict where there has been misquoting and misrepresentation of Your holy Scripture and bring repentance and humility. We ask You to heal any division and pitting of people against one another, and restore unity and love that honors You. Help this body to love both the local flock and the stranger with biblical balance, to care well for its own household while showing Christlike hospitality to foreigners, and to welcome all who come in the name of Jesus according to Your truth. Give our friend courage, grace, and love to speak truth, to seek peace as far as it depends on them, Romans 12:18, and to follow Your will with a clear conscience. Lead them to a place where they can grow and serve if needed, and let Your name be glorified in this situation. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, amen.