We hear your heart, dear sister, and we stand with you in seeking God’s perfect will for your next steps. The desire to honor Him in your career is beautiful, and we are grateful you are bringing this decision before Him in prayer. Let us first affirm that God cares deeply about the work of your hands and the path you take. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths."*
You are right to weigh this opportunity carefully, for the Lord does not call us to wander aimlessly but to walk in purpose. Teaching is a noble and God-ordained vocation, one that shapes minds and hearts for His glory. Yet we also know that the Lord may lead His children into seasons of transition, not to abandon their gifts, but to refine them or use them in new ways. The question before you is not merely about pay or benefits, but whether this role aligns with how God is calling you to steward your time, talents, and influence at this season of your life.
We must also consider the practical and spiritual implications of this change. Nannying is a sacred responsibility—one that involves nurturing and protecting a little one made in God’s image. If the Lord is leading you into this, it could be a season of pouring into a child’s life in a way that plants seeds of faith and love. However, we must also ask: Does this role allow you to continue growing in your gifts as an educator, or could it lead to a prolonged step away from the classroom that might make returning difficult? Does the family you would serve share your Christian values, or could there be spiritual tension in the home? These are not small considerations, for we are called to *"walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time"* (Colossians 4:5).
We also want to gently remind you that God’s provision is not measured solely by a paycheck. While the increase in income is a blessing, we must not let financial gain become the primary driver of our decisions. Jesus warned, *"For what does it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his own soul?"* (Mark 8:36). If this role pulls you away from fellowship with believers, ministry opportunities, or the use of your teaching gifts in a way that leaves you spiritually stagnant, it may not be the Lord’s best for you. On the other hand, if this position allows you to be a light in a home that needs Christ, to model godly womanhood to a child, and to trust God’s provision in a new way, it could be a season of great fruitfulness.
Let us also address the importance of seeking godly counsel. Proverbs 15:22 says, *"Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established."* Have you spoken with your pastor, a trusted mentor, or mature believers in your church about this decision? Their wisdom and outside perspective can help you discern whether this opportunity aligns with God’s leading. Additionally, have you fasted and prayed specifically about this, asking the Lord to confirm His will through His Word and the peace of the Holy Spirit? Philippians 4:6-7 encourages us, *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."*
We must also rebuke any spirit of fear that may be creeping into your heart. You mentioned not wanting to accept the job if it is not God’s will—this is wise, but we must not let the fear of making the "wrong" choice paralyze us. God is sovereign, and even if we stumble, He is able to redirect our steps. Psalm 37:23-24 reminds us, *"A man’s goings are established by Yahweh. He delights in his way. Though he stumble, he shall not fall, for Yahweh holds him up with his hand."* Trust that the Lord will make His will clear as you seek Him wholeheartedly.
Now, let us come before the throne of grace together in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of reverence and trust, knowing that You hold our sister’s future in Your hands. Lord, You see the desires of her heart, and You know the plans You have for her—plans for good and not for harm, to give her a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). We ask that You would grant her clarity and peace as she seeks Your will in this decision. Father, if this nanny position is Your path for her, we pray that You would open the door wide and confirm it through Your Word, godly counsel, and the peace that surpasses understanding. Let her step into this role with confidence, knowing that You have prepared it for her.
But Lord, if this is not Your best for her, we ask that You would close the door firmly and redirect her steps. Give her the courage to wait on You, even if it means trusting You for provision in ways that feel uncertain. Father, we also pray for the family she would serve. If this is Your will, let them be a family that honors You, and let her time with them be a ministry of love and truth. If it is not Your will, we ask that You would prepare another path for her—one that allows her to use her gifts as an educator or in another capacity that brings You glory.
We rebuke any spirit of fear or doubt that would keep her from hearing Your voice clearly. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in wisdom and discernment. Remind her that You are her Provider, her Guide, and her Strength. May she find her identity and security in You alone, not in a job title or a paycheck.
Lord, we also lift up the children in her classroom. If You are calling her to stay in teaching, we pray that You would renew her passion for education and give her fresh vision for the impact she can have on her students. Let her be a light in the school, pointing little ones to You through her words and actions.
Father, we trust You to lead her. Give her patience to wait on Your timing and faith to step forward when You say "go." May this season of decision-making draw her closer to You, deepening her dependence on Your grace. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith. Amen.
As you wait on the Lord, sister, remember that He is not a God of confusion but of peace (1 Corinthians 14:33). If this opportunity is from Him, He will confirm it in ways that leave no doubt. If it is not, He will make another path clear. Continue to seek Him in His Word, in prayer, and in fellowship with other believers. And whatever you decide, do it as unto the Lord, for *"whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men"* (Colossians 3:23).
May the Lord bless you with wisdom, peace, and unwavering trust in His perfect plan for your life.
