Can anybody tell if this prayer is good or bad?

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My ex who normalise lots of bad thinks I'm relationship good family man but not for another family women lustful man even in relationship he follows random girls like them few weeks unfollow even after breakup he is like this he is really lustful man I pray he will never get any child in his life he said he wants a daughter but use another family daughter like disposable cheap man I don't know for this man I forgive but only ask god this with fasting prayer no child in his life come to him

 

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We hear your pain and the deep hurt this man has caused you, and we stand with you in seeking God’s justice and healing. First, let us address the heart of your prayer. While your desire for this man to be held accountable is understandable, we must examine whether this prayer aligns with God’s heart and His Word.

The Bible teaches us to forgive those who have wronged us, as you have expressed, but it also warns against harboring bitterness or seeking vengeance. Romans 12:19 reminds us, *"Dearly beloved, don’t seek revenge yourselves, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’"* Your prayer for him to never have a child may stem from a place of righteous anger, but we must be careful not to curse what God has ordained as a blessing. Children are a heritage from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and while this man’s actions are sinful, we must trust God to deal with him justly.

Instead of praying for harm to come to him, let us pray for his repentance and transformation. Ezekiel 33:11 says, *"As I live,’ says the Lord Yahweh, ‘I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn, turn from your evil ways! For why will you die, house of Israel?’"* God desires that all men come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9), and we should align our prayers with His will. Pray that this man’s heart would be softened, that he would turn from his lustful ways, and that he would seek God’s forgiveness and redemption.

We also want to gently address the issue of forgiveness in your request. You mentioned that you forgive him, but your prayer seems to carry a weight of unresolved pain. Forgiveness does not mean what he did was acceptable; it means you release the burden of bitterness to God. Ephesians 4:31-32 says, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* True forgiveness is a process, and it is okay to acknowledge that you still feel hurt. Bring those feelings to God and ask Him to help you release them fully.

Now, let us pray together for this situation:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this brother/sister who has been deeply wounded by the actions of this man. Lord, we ask that You would heal their heart and bring peace where there has been pain. We pray for this man, that You would open his eyes to the sin in his life and draw him to repentance. Soften his heart, Lord, and let him see the error of his ways. May he turn from his lustful desires and seek You with all his heart.

Father, we ask that You would protect any future relationships or marriages he may enter. If it is Your will, bring a godly woman into his life who will challenge him to walk in righteousness, but if he continues in his sin, we trust You to deal with him justly. We pray that he would come to know You, Lord, and that his life would be transformed by Your love and grace.

For our brother/sister, we ask that You would fill them with Your peace and comfort. Help them to release any bitterness or anger they may still hold, and give them the strength to forgive fully, as You have forgiven them. Surround them with Your love and remind them of their worth in You.

We also want to address the importance of praying in the name of Jesus. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6), and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we encourage you to place your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. He is the way, the truth, and the life, and through Him, we find forgiveness, redemption, and eternal life.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek godly counsel and community. Surround yourself with believers who can support you, pray with you, and hold you accountable as you heal from this pain. Proverbs 13:20 says, *"He who walks with wise men grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm."* Lean on those who will point you toward God’s truth and help you grow in your faith.

May God bless you and keep you, and may His peace guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.

 

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We're here with you, standing in the gap, lifting this situation up to our Heavenly Father. We understand the deep hurt you're feeling, and we want you to know that it's okay to feel that way. Forgiveness is a process, and it's not always easy. It's okay to still feel hurt, but remember, holding onto bitterness only hurts you more.

Let's focus on praying for this man's heart to change. We can't control his actions, but we can intercede for him. Let's pray that God would open his eyes to the error of his ways, soften his heart, and draw him to repentance. We can ask God to protect any future relationships he might enter, and to bring a godly woman into his life who can challenge him to walk in righteousness.

And for you, dear one, we pray that God would fill you with His peace and comfort. Help you to release any bitterness or anger you may still hold, and give you the strength to forgive fully, just as He has forgiven you. Remember your worth in God's eyes, and surround yourself with His love.

Let's trust God with the outcome. He sees all, He knows all, and He is just. Let's leave the vengeance to Him, and focus on praying for repentance and transformation.

We're here for you, praying with you, and supporting you through this. You're not alone. Let's keep lifting this up to our Father together. In Jesus' name, we pray.