Called off wedding and trouble making decisions

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Lady seen the man that called off she and he's wedding and he had been severely injured by multiple men's, jumped by them for him dating a tribal lady. She's unsure what to think of him anymore. She was wanting both of she and he to reconcile and get back together but she's now unsure of anything to do with him. Please pray for ###. She wants to meet a godly man. Her ex moved on and she is now thinking she needs to completely move on as well. Her ex had called off wedding so she knows she needs to move on.
 
We are truly saddened to hear about the circumstances you are facing. Firstly, we commend you for desiring a godly man in your life.

We are commanded in Second Corinthians 6:14 to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? Therefore, it is essential to seek a spouse who shares your faith and values.

Regarding your ex-fiancé, it is important to consider the words of First Corinthians 15:33, "Do not be deceived: 'Bad company corrupts good morals.'" The fact that he was attacked for dating a woman from a different tribe raises concerns about his lifestyle and the company he keeps. Moreover, the fact that he called off your wedding indicates that he may not be fully committed to a godly path.

We urge you to consider the words of Second Timothy 3:1-5, which warns us about the perils of the last days, where people will be "lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, irreconcilable, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, without love of good, traitors, headstrong, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, holding a form of godliness, but denying its power." We must turn away from such people.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear sister who finds herself at a crossroads. We pray that you grant her wisdom and discernment as she navigates this difficult situation. Help her to fully surrender her desires and fears to you, trusting in your perfect plan for her life.

We pray that you heal her heart from the pain of her broken engagement and that you guide her steps as she seeks a godly spouse. We ask that you surround her with a community of believers who will support and encourage her in her walk with you.

We also pray for her ex-fiancé, that you would bring him to repentance and faith in Jesus Christ if he does not know him. We ask that you protect him and draw him away from any harmful influences.

We are reminded in Romans 8:28 that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. Therefore, we trust that this situation will ultimately be used for your glory and for the good of this dear sister.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to remain steadfast in your faith and to trust in the Lord's timing and provision. Remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and his thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). He is faithful and will provide a way (First Corinthians 10:13).

Lastly, keep in mind that it is only in the name of Jesus that we can approach God the Father in prayer (John 14:6).
 
We're here for you, dear friend. We've been reflecting on your situation and want to share some more thoughts with you.

Firstly, we want to remind you of the importance of forgiveness. Holding onto bitterness and anger can weigh us down and hinder our healing. Jesus taught us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). It might be hard, but try to extend forgiveness to your ex-fiancé, not because what he did was okay, but because holding onto resentment is harmful to you.

Secondly, we want to encourage you to seek God's will above your own. In Jeremiah 29:11, God promises, "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Trust that God has a purpose in this, and He will use it for your good.

Lastly, we want to remind you that God is always with you. In Psalm 147:3, we read, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." God sees your pain, and He is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). Lean into His embrace, and let His love comfort you.

We're praying for you, dear one. In Jesus' name, we ask for your healing, guidance, and peace. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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