We stand with you in this painful struggle against the wounds of bullying, betrayal, and the deep scars left by those who should have protected and encouraged you. The Lord sees your suffering, and He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). You have shown great wisdom in recognizing that forgiveness does not mean blind trust or reconciliation with unrepentant hearts—forgiveness is first an act of obedience to Christ, releasing the burden of bitterness so that *you* may walk in freedom. The Lord Jesus Himself warned us that in this world we *will* have tribulation, but He has overcome the world (John 16:33). Your request is already aligned with His will, for you have come to Him in the name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved and through whom we boldly approach the throne of grace (Acts 4:12, Hebrews 4:16).
The betrayal you endured—especially from a parent and those in authority—is a grievous injustice. The Bible speaks clearly about the responsibility of parents to nurture and not provoke their children to wrath (Ephesians 6:4, Colossians 3:21). When those who should have been a refuge became instruments of harm, it is no small thing. Yet even in this, the Lord is your Father who *never* fails (Psalm 27:10). He collects every tear in His bottle (Psalm 56:8) and will repay what was stolen from you—your dignity, your health, your trust. The workplace mobbing you described is an evil the Lord abhors, for He detests "a false witness who utters lies, and one who sows discord among brothers" (Proverbs 6:19). Your former supervisor’s cowardice in gossiping and failing to stand for righteousness will not go unnoticed by God. Romans 1:29-32 lists gossips and slanderers among those who are "worthy of death," not because we wish harm upon them, but because their actions are an affront to God’s holiness. Yet even for them, we pray for repentance, for such were some of us before Christ’s mercy found us (1 Corinthians 6:9-11).
Now, let us address the surrender to bullying that has weighed on your health. The Lord does not call you to be a doormat but to be *strong in Him* (Ephesians 6:10). When you were powerless, Christ died for the ungodly—*you*—and now His power is made perfect in your weakness (Romans 5:6, 2 Corinthians 12:9). You are not called to endure abuse silently but to "resist the devil," and he *will* flee (James 4:7). This resistance begins with renewing your mind in God’s truth: you are *not* what the bullies said. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), chosen (1 Peter 2:9), and more than a conqueror through Christ (Romans 8:37). The Lord is restoring your health—spirit, soul, *and* body—and we declare Isaiah 53:5 over you: *"By His stripes you are healed."* Stand firm in this, even if the restoration is gradual. Take practical steps: set boundaries where possible, seek godly counsel, and reject the lies that have taken root. If medical or therapeutic support is needed, pursue it as an act of stewardship over the body God gave you.
As for forgiveness, you are already on the right path. Forgiveness is not excusing sin or pretending harm didn’t happen; it is releasing the debt to God, the just Judge (Romans 12:19). Jesus forgave *while* He was being crucified (Luke 23:34), not because His oppressors deserved it, but because *bitterness* would have no place in Him. You, too, can forgive—not for their sake, but for *your* freedom. Pray for them as Jesus commanded (Matthew 5:44), not because they earned your kindness, but because *you* are being transformed into Christ’s likeness. And remember: trust is earned, and reconciliation requires repentance (Luke 17:3). You are not obligated to expose yourself to further harm.
Finally, we rejoice that you have brought this before the Lord *in Jesus’ name*—the name above all names (Philippians 2:9). There is no other way to the Father but through Him (John 14:6), and your faith in this truth is your victory. Now, let us pray together:
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Heavenly Father, we lift up Your beloved child before You, knowing that You see every wound, every betrayal, every tear shed in secret. Lord Jesus, You were despised and rejected, acquainted with grief—You understand the depth of this pain. We ask You to bind up every broken place in their heart, to restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25), and to replace their ashes with beauty (Isaiah 61:3). Grant them *supernatural courage*—not in their own strength, but in Yours—to stand firm against bullying, to speak truth with grace, and to walk in the authority You’ve given them as Your heir (Romans 8:17).
Lord, we rebuked the spirit of fear and intimidation that has sought to steal their voice and health. By the blood of Jesus, we break every curse of rejection, shame, and self-doubt. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, who is *power, love, and a sound mind* (2 Timothy 1:7). Restore their body, Lord—renew their strength like the eagle’s (Isaiah 40:31). Let them see themselves as You see them: *redeemed, valued, and mighty in You.*
For the parent who betrayed them, we ask for Your justice and mercy. If it is Your will, bring conviction to their heart, that they may repent before You. But even if they never do, we pray for ### to release this pain to You, trusting You to vindicate them in Your time (1 Peter 2:23). For the cowardly supervisor and workplace bullies, we pray for repentance—for You take no pleasure in the death of the wicked (Ezekiel 33:11). But if they harden their hearts, we trust You to deal with them righteously.
Father, we thank You that forgiveness is not a feeling but a choice—a choice ### is making by Your grace. Help them to forgive *fully*, not in their own strength, but by the power of Your Spirit. Guard their heart from bitterness, and let them walk in the freedom Christ purchased on the cross.
Lastly, Lord, surround them with godly community—people who will speak life, stand with them, and reflect Your love. Let them find their identity in You alone, not in the opinions of man. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that You are turning their mourning into dancing (Psalm 30:11).
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. *Amen.*
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Beloved, keep pressing into the Lord. Read Psalm 91 daily and declare it over your life. The battle is His, and He *will* fight for you (Exodus 14:14). You are not alone—we are standing with you in faith. When the enemy whispers lies, replace them with Scripture. When fear rises, remember: *"The Lord is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?"* (Hebrews 13:6). Walk in victory, for Christ has already won.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
