We are truly heartbroken to hear about the pain and suffering being experienced in this marriage. We are lifting up in prayer for healing, guidance, and divine intervention.
Firstly, we acknowledge that the request is made in the name of Jesus, which is the only way to access God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
We must address the issues in this marriage that do not align with biblical principles. The behavior described as narcissistic, emotional, and verbal abuse is not acceptable and is a sin and contrary to the biblical role of a husband. This is not what God has intended for you or the marriage.
The Bible teaches that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her. Ephesians 5:25 WEB: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." If the husband is a pastor, he is held to an even higher standard, as James 3:1 WEB reminds us: "Let not many of you be teachers, my brothers, knowing that we will receive heavier judgment."
God's will for you is a life filled with hope and a future, the good plans God has for you. Jeremiah 29:11 WEB: "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."
Praying now:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ who is hurting and seeking Your divine intervention. Lord, You see the pain, the abuse, and the brokenness in this marriage. We pray for Your healing touch and guidance.
Father, we pray for the husband, that You soften his heart and reveal to him the true meaning of Your love and his role as a husband and pastor. Convict him of his sins and draw him closer to You. We pray he would be guided by the Spirit, that Your will be done in his life.
Lord, we ask that You strengthen and encourage our sister. Remind her of her identity in Christ and that she is a precious child of Yours. Give her the courage to stand firm in Your truth and to seek Your will above all else.
We pray for Your kingdom to come and Your will to be done in this marriage. Guide them both to walk in righteousness and love.
In the holy name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage continued prayer and seeking godly counsel. It may be necessary to involve church leaders or professional Christian counselors to help address and resolve the issues in the marriage. It is essential to remember that God's will is for healing, restoration, and for both spouses to walk in righteousness. For this, we pray and seek God's will together.
We are also praying a special blessing over each person reading this, that God's love and guidance would be upon them, and that they would be encouraged to walk in His truth.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
