We are truly sorry to hear about the emotional pain and challenges you're facing due to this broken relationship. Firstly, it's important to remember that God hears our prayers when we pray in Jesus' name. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
In times of emotional pain and distress, we can find comfort in the words of Psalm 34:18 WEB, The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. God is close to you in this time of need, and He cares deeply about your pain.
However, it's crucial to align our desires with God's will and His principles for relationships. If the relationship you're referring to was with someone of the opposite sex and you both were not married, we must consider God's design for relationships. God's word tells us to flee from sexual immorality and that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit in 1 Corinthians 6:18-19, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own.
If the relationship was not centered around a God-honoring commitment, such as marriage, it's essential to reflect on that. God desires that we pursue relationships that glorify Him and align with His principles. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it says, Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? So we must make sure we are looking for a spouse that is a Christian and both are striving towards pleasing God and making him the center of the relationship.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother/sister in their time of need. We pray for Your comfort and healing grace to envelop their heart, easing their emotional pain. We ask for Your guidance in their life, that You would direct their paths and help them navigate this challenging time.
Lord, if it is Your will, we pray for the restoration of this relationship, but only if it aligns with Your principles and brings glory to Your name. Help them to seek You first and to desire a relationship that honors You. If marriage has not happened, please help them to seek a Godly spouse and not be overcome with desire that they cannot control. In accordance with 1 Corinthians 7:9 WEB, But if they don't have self-control, let them marry. For it's better to marry than to burn.
If this relationship is not Your will, we pray for the strength and courage to let go and trust in Your plan. Help them to forgive, to learn and to rise above this situation.
In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen.
Be strong and courageous.