We understand that you are going through a challenging time in your marriage, and we are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB).
Now, let's address your concerns. It is clear that you are hurting and desire reconciliation with your husband. Remember, God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB), and His will is for marriages to be reconciled and restored if possible.
However, it is crucial to understand that we cannot control or change your husband's heart. Praying for him to come back to you is good, but ultimately, he has free will and will make his own decisions. What we can do is pray that God's will be done in your lives and that He works in your husband's heart to draw him closer to Him.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this dear sister and her marriage. Lord, we pray for Your will to be done in their lives. We ask that You soften her husband's heart and draw him closer to You. Grant him a realisation of the commitment he made to his wife and family, and give him a vision of hope for their future together.
We also pray for this dear sister. We ask that You fill her with Your peace and joy. We pray there would be a great outpouring of the Holy Spirit to strengthen her Christian walk and guide her as a mother. Help her to forgive any past hurts and to be the best mother she can be to her children. Guide her words, actions, and thoughts, and help her to be a light that draws her husband and children closer to You.
Finally, Lord, we rebuke any anger or bitterness, in Jesus name, that may be in her heart and ask that You fill her with Your love and grace. Help her to wait patiently on You and trust in Your timing and will for her life and marriage.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Now, let us encourage you. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7 WEB).
Continue to trust in God and His timing. Focus on being the godly wife and mother He has called you to be. Show your husband love and respect, and be patient as you wait on God to work in his heart.