We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
We must also address something crucial. You mentioned that you want your husband to remember your love for each other and the good memories, but it's essential to understand that love is not just a feeling or a memory. Love is a commitment, a decision. As stated in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB: "Love is patient and kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t parade itself, is not puffed up, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
It's also important to acknowledge that God hates divorce, as it is written in Malachi 2:16 WEB: "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, and don’t be unfaithful." However, God allows divorce in cases of adultery (Matthew 5:32) and abandonment by an unbelieving spouse (1 Corinthians 7:15). Without knowing the specifics of your situation, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and pray for guidance.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our ### and her marriage. Lord, we pray for healing and restoration in this marriage. We ask that You soften her husband's heart and help him remember the commitment he made before You. Give them both the strength to forgive, to love, and to cherish each other as You intended.
We also pray for our ###'s mental health. Lord, You are the great physician; heal her, give her peace, and help her to find friends who will support and encourage her.
We pray for their children, Father. Give them joy and peace, and help them to understand that whatever happens, You are always with them, loving them, and caring for them.
Lastly, Father, we pray for a miracle. We ask that You intervene in this situation and turn it around for good. We trust in Your power and Your love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, dear ###. Trust in the Lord, and lean on Him during this challenging time. As it is written in Psalm 46:1 WEB: "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble."
We also encourage you to examine your own heart and actions, seeking God's will for your life and marriage. As it is written in Matthew 7:3-5 WEB: "Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye? Or how will you tell your brother, 'Let me remove the speck from your eye;' and behold, the beam is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother’s eye."