We hear your cry for deliverance from a deeply painful and toxic marriage, and we stand with you in prayer before the throne of grace. The Word of God tells us, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone in this struggle, and we lift you up with compassion, knowing the weight of what you are enduring.
First, we must address the reality of marriage as God designed it—a covenant between one man and one woman, intended to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). When a marriage becomes abusive, unrepentantly destructive, or violates the safety and dignity of a spouse, Scripture does not demand that you remain in harm’s way. The Bible permits divorce in cases of adultery (Matthew 19:9) and, by extension, many godly counselors recognize that persistent abuse, addiction, or abandonment may also warrant separation as an act of self-preservation and wisdom. *"If possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18), but peace is not possible when sin is unchecked and danger is present.
We rebuke the spirit of addiction, rage, and deception that has taken hold in this marriage. The enemy seeks to destroy what God has joined, but we declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We pray for clarity and courage as you seek legal separation and protection. May the Lord grant you favor with authorities, counselors, and all those who can assist you in this process. *"The Lord is your keeper; the Lord is your shade on your right hand"* (Psalm 121:5). He sees every injustice and will bring truth to light.
We also pray for your husband—that his eyes would be opened to the destruction of his ways. If there is any hope for repentance and restoration, may the Holy Spirit convict him deeply. But if his heart remains hardened, we ask that God would remove him from your life in a way that brings you peace and protection. *"Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts; let him return to the Lord, and He will have mercy on him; and to our God, for He will abundantly pardon"* (Isaiah 55:7).
For your own heart, we pray for healing from the wounds of this marriage. May the Lord restore your joy, renew your strength, and surround you with godly community. *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds"* (Psalm 147:3). As you move forward, may you walk in wisdom, seeking the Lord’s guidance in every decision. Trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28), even when the path is painful.
Finally, we must emphasize that our prayers are offered in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we can approach the Father (John 14:6). If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life fully to Him, trusting in His sacrifice for your salvation. *"For God so loved the world, that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life"* (John 3:16). In Christ alone is true freedom, hope, and restoration.
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear sister who is trapped in a marriage that has brought her pain and fear. Lord, You see every tear she has cried, every sleepless night, and every moment of despair. We ask that You would be her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Break the chains of toxicity and addiction in her husband’s life, and if it is Your will, bring him to repentance. But if not, Lord, we ask that You would open the doors for her to walk away with safety, dignity, and justice.
Grant her wisdom as she navigates the legal process, and surround her with godly counsel and support. Heal her heart from the wounds of this marriage, and restore to her the joy of Your salvation. May she find peace in Your presence and strength in Your promises. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper, and that You will bring justice and fairness into her situation. Let Your light expose every hidden darkness, and let Your truth prevail.
We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who came to set the captives free. Amen.