We hear your cry for help, your exhaustion, and your deep desire for peace, safety, and a godly marriage. First, we must address the language of "speaking into existence" and commanding or decreeing a boyfriend into your life. This is not a biblical approach. God is sovereign, and we do not control His will through our words or declarations. Instead, we humbly submit to Him, trusting in His perfect timing and plan. "For I know the plans I have for you," says Yahweh, "plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future" (Jeremiah 29:11). We must surrender our desires to Him, not attempt to manipulate outcomes.
You express a fear of being used, mistreated, or even harmed by a future spouse, and we take these concerns seriously. Your safety and well-being matter deeply to God. However, we must rebuke the spirit of fear that seems to grip you. "For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7). The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came to give you life abundantly. We bind the spirit of fear, manipulation, and control in the name of Jesus and declare that you are a daughter of the Most High God, covered by His blood and protected by His power.
Your mention of "Satan and the government" owning you or your loved ones is not aligned with Scripture. You are not owned by any evil force or earthly system. "You are of God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world" (1 John 4:4). We rebuke any lies that suggest you are not free. You are free in Christ, and no weapon formed against you will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). However, we must also caution against speaking curses or harsh words over others, even those who have wronged you. "Bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you" (Luke 6:28). Vengeance belongs to the Lord, not to us.
Your desire for a godly spouse is beautiful and honoring to God, but we must address the foundation of your request. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you are seeking a boyfriend with the intention of courtship leading to marriage, we encourage you to pursue this relationship with wisdom, prayer, and godly counsel. However, we must also warn against the dangers of emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage. Fornication is a sin, and God calls us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18). If you have been involved in relationships that did not honor God in this way, we encourage you to repent and seek His forgiveness.
Your mention of leaving the States and feeling isolated is heartbreaking. Loneliness can be overwhelming, but God promises never to leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). We pray that He would surround you with a community of believers who can support and encourage you. You are not alone, and your worth is not defined by your appearance, your circumstances, or the opinions of others. "The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart" (1 Samuel 16:7).
We also notice that your prayer does not explicitly mention the name of Jesus, who is the only way to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that Jesus died for you and rose again, and invite Him to be the Lord of your life. "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of this precious daughter of Yours. We ask that You would calm her fears, heal her heart, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord, we rebuke the spirit of fear, loneliness, and despair in the name of Jesus. We declare that she is free in Christ, protected by Your blood, and covered by Your grace.
Father, we ask that You would guide her steps and lead her to a godly man who loves You above all else. Prepare her heart for marriage, Lord, and help her to trust in Your timing. Teach her to wait on You, to seek Your will, and to walk in purity and holiness. If there has been any sin in her past relationships, we ask for Your forgiveness and restoration.
Lord, we pray for her health and strength. Renew her energy, lift her spirits, and remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Surround her with a community of believers who can encourage and support her. Help her to find her identity in You, not in the opinions of others or the circumstances of this world.
We ask that You would break any generational curses or assignments of the enemy over her life. We declare that the assignment ends today, in the mighty name of Jesus. No weapon formed against her will prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment will be condemned (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, we pray that she would draw near to You and find her refuge in You alone. Help her to rest in Your promises and to trust in Your unfailing love. We ask all of this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to seek out a local church or a community of believers who can walk alongside you in this season. God’s Word is clear: "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn’t have another to lift him up" (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10). You do not have to fight this battle alone. Lean on Him, trust in His promises, and allow His love to fill the empty places in your heart.
Fold I get a Boyfriend that’s a good thing for me that is sweet & won’t cut off my head or use me & God Almighty ever again the assignment ends today. Not a boyfriend that’s wants to use me screams on my head that’s way to EVIL then to soul mate else while there screaming on my head or use my wedding Air with someone else Bind Up Satan Government like the worst ex boyfriend ever release everything of mine my family friends our pets even enough is enough that’s wrong only Satan steals if your going act like Satan I’m going to treat u like SATAN the assignment ends today. Satan& the government does not own me my family friends our pets we are free this is supposed to b land of freedom assignment ends today. However since im fighting for existence everyday in every way I get a Boyfriend that’s will b willing to leave the States I can’t take it I have nothing & no one it’s not for me & God Almighty to many jealous haters that Don’t want me confident I don’t put my make up on anymore I don’t wear my eyelashes anymore this assignment ends today. I feel sick all the time it’s exhausting for me to STAY this way the assignment ends today period permanently that’s it that’s all with the blood of Jesus
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
