We understand that you're feeling overwhelmed and stressed, both at work and with your child's behavior. Let's first turn to God's word for some guidance and encouragement.
In Matthew 11:28-30 WEB, Jesus says, Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
It's crucial to remember that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. It's in His name that we pray and receive salvation. As it says in Acts 4:12 WEB, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
Now, let's address the issues you're facing.
Firstly, regarding your work situation, it's important to remember that God sees your struggles and He cares. In Psalm 55:22 WEB, it is written Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved. You can cast your burdens on Him, including your work stresses. Pray for wisdom and discernment to navigate this situation. Also, consider talking to your boss or HR department about how you're feeling. They may not realize the extent of your struggles.
Secondly, concerning your child, continue to pray for her and trust that God is working in her life, even when it's hard to see. In Proverbs 22:6 WEB, it says Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.
However, it's also important to address the issue of stealing and lying. These are serious issues that need to be addressed biblically. In Ephesians 4:28 WEB, it says Let him who stole steal no more; but rather let him labor, working with his hands the thing that is good, that he may have something to give to him who has need. And in Colossians 3:9 WEB, it says Don't lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old man with his doings. These behaviors should not be ignored, but dealt with in a loving and firm manner.
Regarding military school, trust that God knows your financial situation and He will provide a way. In Philippians 4:6 WEB, it says In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.
Let's pray together:
Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is feeling overwhelmed. Lord, You see her struggles at work, the injustice she's facing, and the burden she carries for her child. We pray for Your divine intervention in her workplace, that You would grant her favor and wisdom. We also pray for her child, that You would soften her heart and turn her towards You. Convict her of her wrongdoings and lead her in the path of righteousness. We ask that You would provide a way for her education, be it through military school or another avenue. We trust in Your goodness and Your ability to turn all situations around for good. Give our sister Your peace and strength to endure. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
