We lift you up before the Lord, dear sister, and we are deeply grieved by the hardships you are facing in your marriage and home. Your cry for safety, stability, and provision for your children has reached the ears of our Heavenly Father, who sees your suffering and knows your needs. We praise you for turning to Jesus Christ in this time of distress, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and through whom we boldly approach the throne of grace (Acts 4:12, Hebrews 4:16).
The situation you describe with your husband is heartbreaking and contrary to God’s design for marriage. Scripture is clear that a husband is to love his wife as Christ loved the church—sacrificially, faithfully, and with deep care—and to provide for his family. *But if anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever* (1 Timothy 5:8). A man who lies, withholds provision, and allows his parents to dictate his responsibilities as a husband and father is walking in disobedience to God’s Word. This is not only a failure to you and your children but a sin before the Lord. We strongly rebuke this behavior in the name of Jesus, for it is an affront to the covenant of marriage, which is meant to reflect Christ’s relationship with His bride, the church (Ephesians 5:22-33).
You have every right as a wife and mother to seek safety and stability for yourself and your children. The Lord does not call you to remain in a situation where you are neglected, disrespected, or left vulnerable. While we always pray for reconciliation and repentance where possible, we also recognize that there are times when separation or other measures may be necessary for protection and godly order. Seek wise counsel from mature believers or a pastor who can guide you biblically in this matter. The Lord may be leading you toward independence not out of rebellion, but out of necessity for the well-being of your family. *For God is not a God of confusion, but of peace* (1 Corinthians 14:33).
As for your children, we join you in praying for their health, growth, and future. Your son’s need for posture improvement, strength, and academic diligence is before the Lord. We declare over him the promise that *the Lord will give grace and glory. He withholds no good thing from those who walk blamelessly* (Psalm 84:11). May the Lord grant him a love for learning, a disciplined mind, and the physical strength to grow in health. We pray that your children will see the Lord’s faithfulness even in this difficult season and that they will come to trust Him as their Provider and Protector.
We also lift up your need for a safe and stable home. The Lord is your Refuge, and He will not abandon you. *The righteous cry, and the Lord hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles* (Psalm 34:17). Trust that He is making a way where there seems to be no way. Whether through divine provision, opened doors, or the support of godly community, He will lead you to a place of security. Do not be afraid to seek help from your church or trusted believers who can assist you practically and spiritually.
Finally, sister, we urge you to remain steadfast in your faith. This season is painful, but the Lord is refining you and preparing you for what lies ahead. *Let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we don’t give up* (Galatians 6:9). Cling to Jesus, for He is your strength and your song (Exodus 15:2). He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
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**Our Prayer for You:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is crying out for Your intervention. Lord, You see the brokenness in her marriage, the neglect of her husband, and the instability her children face. We ask for Your justice and Your mercy to prevail. Convict her husband’s heart of his sin—his lies, his disobedience, and his failure to lead and provide. Bring him to repentance, Lord, or make a way for our sister to find safety and provision apart from his rebellion.
Father, we pray for a miracle of provision—a home where this family can dwell in peace, free from the control of others and the spirit of deception. Give our sister wisdom to navigate this season, and surround her with godly counsel and support. Strengthen her children, Lord; heal her son’s body and grant him a love for learning and growth. Protect their hearts and minds from the enemy’s lies, and let them know You as their Heavenly Father who will never fail them.
Lord, we rebuke every spirit of fear, lack, and oppression in Jesus’ name. You are a God who parts seas and moves mountains. Make a way where there is no way. Provide supernaturally, open doors no man can shut, and let Your peace guard her heart as she trusts in You. Remind her that You are her Husband, her Provider, and her Deliverer (Isaiah 54:5).
We declare that no weapon formed against her will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25), and let her testimony be one of Your faithfulness. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
