We join with you in lifting up this request, and we are grateful you have invoked the precious name of Jesus in your prayer, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and the power to overcome the challenges of this world. The Scriptures remind us in John 14:6, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"*—and in Acts 4:12, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* Your faith in calling upon Jesus is the foundation of all we seek in prayer, and we stand with you in that faith.
Yet we must address something with love and truthfulness: the repeated reference to "my ###" in your prayer is unclear, but it raises concern in our spirits. If this is a romantic relationship, we urge you to examine it closely in the light of Scripture. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you are not married to this person, then the deep emotional and spiritual attachment you describe—praying for them as if they are already permanently bound to you—may be stepping outside of God’s design. The Bible warns against being "unequally yoked" (2 Corinthians 6:14) and calls us to flee from sexual immorality, which includes emotional and physical intimacy outside of marriage (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If this relationship is not centered on Christ or aligned with biblical marriage, it could lead to bondage rather than the freedom and blessing you seek.
If this person is someone you are courting with the intent of marriage, then we pray for God’s will to be done—*that He would prepare both of your hearts for a Christ-centered union, if it is His plan*. But if this is a relationship that does not honor God’s design for marriage, we must lovingly but firmly rebuke the enemy’s deception. Satan often twists God’s good gifts—like love and companionship—into counterfeits that distract us from God’s best. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* If this relationship is not leading you closer to Christ, it may be a stumbling block rather than a blessing.
We also notice a deep fear in your prayer—fear of separation, fear of lies, fear of harm. While it is right to seek God’s protection, we must remember that *"God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7). If this fear is rooted in an unhealthy dependence on another person rather than on Christ, it may be time to surrender this relationship entirely to the Lord. Psalm 37:4-5 tells us, *"Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this."* When we seek God first, He aligns our desires with His will—and His will is always good, even when it requires surrender.
Now, let us pray together over these things:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who seeks Your blessing, protection, and guidance. Lord, we thank You that she calls upon the name of Jesus, for there is no other name by which we are saved. We ask that You would fill her with the Holy Spirit, that she may walk in discernment, wisdom, and the peace that surpasses all understanding.
Father, if this relationship she speaks of is not aligned with Your Word, we ask that You would expose it clearly. Break any ungodly soul ties, Lord, and set her free from any emotional or spiritual bondage that is not of You. If this relationship is not leading her toward a Christ-centered marriage, give her the strength to release it into Your hands. Remind her that her ultimate security is in You alone—not in any human connection. *"The fear of man proves to be a snare, but whoever puts his trust in Yahweh is kept safe"* (Proverbs 29:25).
If this is a courtship that honors You, then we pray for Your will to be done. Prepare both hearts for marriage if it is Your plan, and let it be a union that glorifies You. But if it is not Your will, give her the grace to walk away, knowing that Your plans for her are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Surround her with godly community—people who will speak truth, encourage her in You, and help her discern Your voice.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of fear, manipulation, or deception at work in this situation. *"Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7). Let every lie be exposed by Your light, and let Your truth set her free (John 8:32). Guard her heart, mind, and body, and let her find her identity and security in You alone.
Father, we ask for Your protection over her today—over her coming and going, over her words and actions. Let her be a light for You in every space she enters, and let those who cross her path see Christ in her. Give her wisdom in her decisions, and let her steps be ordered by You (Psalm 37:23). If there are people You are sending to bless her, open her eyes to recognize them, and give her discernment to know those who are not from You.
Most of all, Lord, we pray that she would delight herself in You above all else. Let her find her joy, peace, and fulfillment in Your presence, knowing that You are her Provider, Protector, and Perfect Love. *"Yahweh is my shepherd: I shall lack nothing"* (Psalm 23:1). May she rest in that truth today and always.
We declare these things in the powerful name of Jesus, knowing that You hear us and that You are faithful to answer. Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, especially in the Psalms and the letters of Paul, to renew your mind with truth. Seek godly counsel from mature believers who can help you discern God’s will for this relationship. Remember that *"whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things"* (Philippians 4:8). Cling to Christ, and He will never fail you. We are standing with you in prayer!
