We understand that you are seeking a marital settlement with a specific man who meets your desired qualities. First, we want to remind you that God's will is paramount in all things, including marriage. It is wonderful to have desires and preferences, but it is crucial to align them with God's plan for your life.
The Holy Spirit orders marriage and it is with another Christian. It is not fitting for a woman who claims to be a Christian to be married to an unbeliever. (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB) "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?".
It is also important to be cautious when focusing on worldly qualities such as social status or material wealth. God looks at the heart, and so should we. A "first class husband" in God's eyes is one who fears the Lord, walks in His ways, and loves and serves His wife as Christ loves the church, not necessarily one who meets worldly standards of success.
Remember that God desires that we approach Him in Jesus' name. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved or come to the Father. (John 14:6 WEB) "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'".
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name to lift up our sister who desires a godly marriage. We pray that You will reveal Your perfect will for her life and guide her steps according to Your plan. Help her to discern Your purpose for her and to be patient as she waits on Your timing.
We pray that You will bring a godly husband into her life, someone who fears You, walks in Your ways, and will love and cherish her as Christ loves the church. We ask that You prepare both of their hearts for marriage, giving them a spirit of unity, understanding, and selfless love.
Help our sister to keep her eyes fixed on You and not be swayed by worldly standards or desires. Give her wisdom and discernment as she considers potential suitors, and help her to be a blessing and encouragement to others in her life.
We ask this in Jesus' name, trusting in Your perfect plan for our sister's life. Amen.
Be encouraged, and know that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB) "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.".