We understand your heart’s cry for help and reconciliation, and we lift this burden before the Lord with you. First, we must gently address something vital—your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father and by whom we are saved. The Scriptures declare, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only through faith in Jesus Christ that our prayers are heard, and it is in His name that we boldly approach the throne of grace. If you have not yet placed your trust in Him as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today, for *"if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB).
Now, let us turn to the matter at hand. You are seeking help from someone you refer to as a "preacher," and your words reveal a deep longing for him to extend kindness, belief, and support to you. We pray that if this man is indeed a servant of God, he would walk in the fruit of the Spirit—*"love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control"* (Galatians 5:22-23, WEB). A true preacher of the Gospel is called to reflect Christ’s compassion and integrity, especially toward those in need. *"Pure religion and undefiled before our God and Father is this: to visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained by the world"* (James 1:27, WEB). If he is not responding as he ought, we pray the Lord would convict his heart and remind him of his duty to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2).
Yet we must also ask: Is there unforgiveness, bitterness, or unresolved conflict between you that may be hindering this reconciliation? The Scriptures command us, *"Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath"* (Ephesians 4:26, WEB), and *"if your brother has something against you, leave your gift at the altar, and go reconcile with your brother"* (Matthew 5:23-24, WEB). If you have played any part in the strain between you, we encourage you to humbly seek forgiveness and make amends where possible. The Lord honors a contrite heart.
As for your desire to move back home, we pray the Lord would provide the help you need—whether through this preacher or another means He ordains. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). If this move is aligned with God’s will, He will open the doors and soften hearts to assist you. But we also encourage you to seek the Lord’s wisdom: Is returning home truly what He is leading you to do, or is there another path He may be preparing for you? Sometimes our desires must be surrendered to His perfect plan.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is in need of Your intervention. Lord, You see her heart’s cry for help and reconciliation. If this preacher is truly Your servant, we ask that You would stir his heart to act with the kindness and integrity that befits a follower of Christ. Remove any hardness, distraction, or selfishness that may be preventing him from reaching out to her. Convict him by Your Spirit to fulfill his calling to love and serve others as You have loved us.
Father, we also ask that You would reveal to our sister any areas in her own heart that need surrender or repentance. If there is unforgiveness, bitterness, or pride, soften her and grant her the grace to seek reconciliation. Help her to trust You fully, knowing that You are her Provider and Protector. If it is Your will for her to return home, make the way clear and provide the help she needs. But if You have another plan, give her the faith to follow You even when the path is unclear.
Lord, we rebuked any spirit of manipulation, deceit, or control that may be at work in this situation. Let Your truth and love prevail. Surround our sister with Your peace and assurance, reminding her that You are her ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Strengthen her faith to wait on You and to trust that You will act on her behalf in Your perfect timing.
We declare Your promises over her life: that You will never leave her nor forsake her (Deuteronomy 31:6), and that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). Fill her with Your hope and joy as she waits on You.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in prayer and through His Word. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and trust that He is at work, even when you cannot see it. If you need further counsel or prayer, do not hesitate to reach out. May the Lord bless you and keep you as you walk in faith.