being stubborn in relationship

[Anonymous]

Go do his will in my relationship with my future wife and how things turn out so that we don't fall out of what he is calling us to do when we get married. Guide us even when we are in tribulation and we are being super stubborn.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart’s cry for wisdom and surrender in your journey toward marriage. Stubbornness can be a great hindrance in any relationship, especially one that is meant to reflect Christ’s love for His church. The Lord calls us to humility, patience, and selflessness—qualities that are essential for a godly marriage. When we resist His will or insist on our own way, we open the door to strife, division, and even the enemy’s schemes to disrupt what God has joined together.

The Bible warns us in Proverbs 13:10, "By pride comes only contention, but with the well-advised is wisdom." Stubbornness often stems from pride, and pride is the root of so many conflicts in relationships. When we dig in our heels and refuse to yield to God’s leading—or even to one another—we grieve the Holy Spirit and create barriers where there should be unity. Marriage is a sacred covenant, not just between two people, but before God. It requires daily dying to self, as Ephesians 5:21 instructs: "subjecting yourselves to one another in the fear of Christ." This mutual submission is not a sign of weakness, but of strength and trust in God’s design.

We must also remember that trials and tribulations will come, even in the strongest of marriages. But it is in those moments that our faith is refined, and our dependence on God deepens. James 1:2-4 tells us, "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you fall into various temptations, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. Let endurance have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing." Stubbornness in the face of trials will only lead to bitterness and division, but surrendering to God’s will—even when it’s hard—will produce perseverance, maturity, and a marriage that glorifies Him.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, lifting up this brother and his future wife. Lord, we ask that You break every spirit of stubbornness and pride that seeks to divide them or hinder Your will in their lives. Soften their hearts to hear Your voice and to yield to one another in love, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her. Father, we pray that You would guide them in every decision, every conversation, and every trial they face. Help them to seek Your wisdom above their own understanding, and to trust in Your perfect plan for their marriage.

Lord, we ask that You would fill them with Your Holy Spirit, so that they may walk in unity, peace, and mutual respect. When tribulations come—and they will—remind them that You are their refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Teach them to lean on You and on one another, rather than allowing stubbornness to drive a wedge between them. Father, we pray that their marriage would be a testimony of Your love and grace, a light in a dark world, and a reflection of Christ’s relationship with His bride.

We rebuke every spirit of division, strife, and pride in the name of Jesus. We declare that this brother and his future wife will walk in the fullness of Your purpose for their lives, and that their marriage will be rooted and grounded in Your love. Strengthen them, Lord, and help them to keep their eyes fixed on You, the author and perfecter of their faith. In Jesus’ mighty name we pray, Amen.

We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word together, even now as you prepare for marriage. Study passages like Ephesians 5, 1 Corinthians 13, and Colossians 3, which outline God’s design for marriage and love. Pray together regularly, inviting the Holy Spirit to guide your steps and soften your hearts. Seek godly counsel from mature believers who can speak truth into your lives and hold you accountable. And remember, marriage is not just about happiness—it’s about holiness. It’s about two people coming together to grow closer to God and to one another, reflecting His love to the world.

If there are areas where you’ve allowed stubbornness to take root, repent and ask the Lord to help you change. Confess these things to one another, as James 5:16 instructs: "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed." There is power in humility and vulnerability, and it is the foundation of a strong, godly marriage. Trust that God is working all things together for your good, even when it’s hard to see. Keep your eyes on Him, and He will lead you into all truth.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, brother, standing in faith for your relationship. It's tough, isn't it? But remember, God's ways are always higher than ours. He's calling you to surrender, to lay down your stubbornness and pride, and to trust in His perfect plan for your marriage. It's not about who's right or wrong, but about yielding to the Holy Spirit and growing together in love and unity.

We're praying for you, that God would soften both your hearts, helping you to hear His voice and yield to one another in love. We're asking Him to guide you in every decision, conversation, and trial you face. And we're believing that your marriage will be a testimony of His love and grace, a light in this world.

Keep seeking God's wisdom, spending time in His Word together, and praying regularly. Remember, marriage is about holiness, not just happiness. It's about growing closer to God and to each other. Trust that He's working all things together for your good, even when it's hard to see.

You're not alone in this. We're here, lifting you up in prayer. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and He will lead you into all truth.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[The Encourager]

Pray for the salvation of your family, friends, those you care about, and all those God place on your heart.

Let Us Pray: God today I lift up my entire family to you (the ones I know and don’t know), all those I love, and care about (including myself). God, I ask You in Jesus’ name, one by one, and name by name, that You will lead each of us closer to You. Save those of us who stand in need of salvation. Heal those of us who stand in need of healing. Deliver those of us who stand in need of deliverance. Baptize every single one of us in the baptism of Your Holy Spirit. Bless each of us to have a real up-close personal intimate relationship with You.

God, please remove any skepticism, lies, bitterness, and or discouragement that might hold any of us back from pursuing You. God, bless every one of us to come to know You in truth, fall in love with You, and never fall out of love with You. Bless all of us to accept Jesus Christ as our Savior and Lord. Let Jesus be "Lord of All" in each of our lives. Let every single one of us live our lives to please You. God show each of us what that looks like and help us all to live our lives for Your glory, approval, and applause. God, please do the same for the writer of this prayer. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus. Amen. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

 

[hostadmin]

We want to thank you for the privilege of standing with you in prayer these past days. It has been our joy to lift your heart before the Lord, asking Him to align your steps with His perfect will for your relationship and your future marriage. We prayed that He would soften stubborn hearts, including your own, and guide both of you through every trial with wisdom, patience, and unwavering trust in His plan.

If the Lord has already begun to answer these prayers—if you’ve seen His peace settle over your conversations, if you’ve felt His conviction leading you both closer to His purpose, or if He has opened doors you didn’t even know to knock on—we would love to hear your praise report. Your testimony could be the very encouragement someone else needs to keep pressing into God’s promises.

If, however, you’re still waiting, still wrestling, or still feeling the weight of stubbornness or uncertainty, please don’t hesitate to post this request again. We are here to continue standing in agreement with you, interceding for clarity, humility, and the grace to surrender every part of your relationship to His lordship. You are not alone in this journey.

May the Holy Spirit continue to speak to your hearts, drawing you both deeper into obedience and trust. May He remind you that His ways are higher, His timing is perfect, and His love is the foundation on which your marriage is being built. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.